33 Facts you need to know About Love part2

33 Facts you need to know About Love part2

By: Bode Akinola

33 Facts you need to know About Love part2

17 We can’t help our loved ones if we’re focusing on what’s wrong with them.

18 Love says: “I’m willing to do anything to help you change if you want to change. And I’m willing to do anything to prevent you from being forced to change if you don’t want to change, because I accept you exactly as you are.”
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19 More important than what to look for in a partner is our attitude while looking, because we can’t draw anything to ourselves that we believe we don’t deserve.
33 Facts you need to know About Love part2 33 Facts you need to know About Love part2
20 We attract people into our lives who precisely match what we are currently being, so we need to be the partner we want to love.
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21 We need to be in the vibe of what we want to have, even though it isn’t present yet.

22 Before we can receive what we want in a partner, our beliefs and attitude must be a perfect match.

23 If we build a relationship with the best behaviors of the romance phase, we’ll be surprised when we finally meet the rest of the person.

24 A partner with challenging qualities can help us as long as we remember that conflict has a valuable purpose.

25 We use our relationships to heal our issues and make us whole, so it’s necessary to relate with less-than-perfect people.

26 We relate with our beliefs about people, so our relationships have more to do with us than with them.

27 Love doesn’t require others to do something or to be something to win our acceptance and approval.

28 Love means letting our partners be exactly as they are without wishing they would change for us.

29 Love doesn’t label people as wrong, because everyone is right from his or her perspective.

30 When we focus on being receptive, rather than struggling to be accepted and understood, we can know our partner’s thoughts and feelings.

31 Love means that it’s nearly impossible for our partners to have a need that we’re not aware of, because we care about their needs as much as we care about ours.

32 Love knows that whatever is good for either of us is good for both of us.

33 In the area of relationships, two halves don’t make a whole — two wholes make a whole partnership.