3 Main Tools For Building A Good Marriage
3 Main Tools For Building A Good Marriage
-Bisi Adewale
No true building can stand the test of time without a solid foundation, therefore for marriage to stand the test of time the foundation of such marriage should be critically work upon and be solid. Here, listed some of the component of a solid foundation:
1.Good Character. “Through wisdom is an house builded and by understanding it is established. Develop good attitude that will make your marriage material and marketable. You need to purge yourself of every bad character like talkativeness, nagging, abuses, keeping malice, anger, pride, backbiting, gossiping, anger, stubbornness, and what have you. All these combined together to uproot anybody from a good life and marriage. Work on yourself and allow God to breathe on you and make you develop good character such as kindness, forgiving spirit, humility, neatness, joyous, happiness, hospitality, all these combined will grant good marriage with God on your side.
2.Good Choice. There no decision without a choice and whatever choice you make today determines your future. If you choose wrongly, you will live your choose and if you allow God to determine your marital choice; you will have a good marriage. Avail yourself the opportunity to make God lead you to choices in life.
3.Good Communication. If you don’t know how to talk well, you will not have people’s favour. Learn when and when not to talk. Proverbs 4:7 says, “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And with all thy getting, get understanding. You must act and react wisely at all individual difference. Develop a large heart to accommodate people with their difference. This attitude will help you a lot in your marriage. Shalom!
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of an Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, Whatsaap 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter @bisiadewale
awesome piece, i have a question on point number 3. Good communication! You made it clear, how good communication is vital. But, did not lay any foundation on how to talk properly. I believe many couples admit or do not admit to the fact that they don’t know how to talk. It will be best, if in your next article, you highlight the basics on learning to talk politely, tune in talking, when to talk and when not to talk underlining these points effectively at at different points in life/time. That way, your readers will appreciate and grasp the entire content more appropriately. Thank You! I also wish, I could write articles for your web. Thank You.
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