22 THINGS THAT DOES NOT DEFINE A MAN

22 THINGS THAT DOES NOT DEFINE A MAN

Most of the time, we have wrong notions of what manhood is all about. What comes to mind when you mention a virtuous woman is a definition of what a good woman should be. Godliness, homeliness, good-looking without exposing nakedness, cheerfulness, hospitality, etc. will be considered in defining a virtuous woman.

However, what comes to mind when mentioning real men is far from virtue. If you search the words “real man” on Google, you won’t be surprised to see the pictures of military boys and muscular men with six-packs, carrying heavy loads, pulling cars, etc. That is the world’s picture of a real man. Physical strength does not emphasize attitude, character and virtue. So we need to state here, factors that do not make a real man. In a later chapter, I will be telling you who a real man should be.

THE FOLLOWING DOES NOT MAKE A REAL MAN:

1. His muscles and six-packs
2. His physical strength, and masculinity.
3. His ability to sleep with many women regularly
4. His ability to drink many bottles of beer
5. The length of his genital
6. His ability to woo and win women
7. His ability to eat large bowls of food
8. His ability to crack jokes and make women laugh
9. His physical attributes (handsome face, tall height, baritone voice, etc)
10. His ability to beat three men at a go
11. His ability to carry heavy loads.
12. His ability to smoke lots of cigarettes
13. His ability to drive a car at high speed
14. His ability to use hard drugs
15. The number of sex rounds he can go with a woman over a night
16. His ability to play football
17. His ability to spend lots of money in nightclubs and beer parlours
18. His ability to have connections with “big boys” in town
19. The number of women in his life
20. His ability to beat his wife and make her fear him
21. His ability to dominate other men in his life
22. The amount of money he has in his bank account
23. The kind of Car he drives
24. His connection in the Government circle.His 25. Diabolical powers
25. The number of times he can have sex in a night.
26. The number of Chieftaincy Titles he has
27. The number of Wives he marries29
28. How bushy his beard is
29. The number of Children he has
30. The number of Girlfriends he has
31. The number of Cars he has