14 CHARACTERS OF AN EXTRAORDINARY WIFE

14 CHARACTERS OF AN EXTRAORDINARY WIFE

Bisi Adewale                                                                                 

Every extraordinary wife is known to have a good character trait that makes them unique. An extraordinary wife is not known by her cloth it is by her character. That is why the Bible says “The heart of her husband safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil”. Proverbs 31:11. She is so good that both her husband and children recognize her qualities and celebrate her for them. 

“Her children arise up and call her blessed, her husband also and he praiseth her”. Proverbs 31:28.

For a woman to be known as an extraordinary wife, the following character trait must be evident in her:

1. God-fearing. Proverbs 31:30. The fear of the Lord is the first quality of an extraordinary woman. They are known to fear God and celebrate his faithfulness, sin is not part of their lives, they live for God and live in God, Holiness is their lifestyle and godliness is another character. 
2. They are wise. Wisdom is the second character trait of an extraordinary wife. She is wise and smart; she knows what to do and how to do it. Proverbs 14:1……..
3. Good Communicator. “Sheopeneth her mouth with wisdom and in her tongue is the law of kindness”. Proverbs 31:36. Extraordinarywives are known for their wise communication skill, they are not nag or talkative, they are not abusive or sin with their mouth. Through their mouth, they have been able to win their husbands and their in-laws. 
4. Respectful.Ephesians 5:33……Extraordinarywives are known to be respectful. They reverence their husbands and honour them as their leading aid the head of the family. 
5. Good follower.They don’t only respect their husbands; they also follow their husband’s leadership and follow their husband’s vision with joy. 
6. Home manager. She is a wife with a difference, she knows how to manage home affairs in the best way, she is a home manager. She manages her in-laws rightly, manages her home front in her husband’s absence, she manages money well, manages children, maids, etc very well to the glory of God. Proverbs 31:27……
7. She is thoughtful.She is thoughtful enough to make adequate provision for her family, she is a woman of deep understanding, her versatility is legendary, she seems to have a ready-made solution to all family problems. Proverbs 31:21.
8. Hospitable.She is a lover of visitors, she takes good care of them and makes them comfortable in her house. 
9. Generous.She is a life-giver, she gives and provides for the needy, she flows out to people in need and makes life comfortable for the poor. Proverbs 31:20……

10.Productive. She is a productive woman, she is creative and industrious, she is diligent and goal-getter. Proverbs 31:24……..

11. She is good.She is very good to her husband; she does him good all the days of her life, looking for his goodness, working for his success, promoting his progress. Proverbs 31:12……
12. She is a good dresser. A great wife is a good dresser, she is fashionable and looks nice, she does not dress immorally, she looks godly, neat, smart, lovely and beautiful in anything she wears. 
13. Early riser. You can’t catch her in bed after 6:am, she is an early riser, even if she goes to bed late, she will still get up early. She is not given to too much sleep. She wakes up early to take care of his family. Proverbs 31:155
14. She is romantic.She knows that to be a successful wife, one must not just be good in cooking and boiling but must also be good in the bedroom, so she is a very good bedroom performer with her husband protecting her husband from a strange woman in the process. SOS 2:3

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