18 Simple Ways To Handling Your House Maids.Part 2
-Bisi Adewale
18 Simple Ways To Handling Your House Maids.Part 2
In this modern day, house maids have become part of many family life and a whole lots of women are
making serious mistakes the way they handle them. Some are losing their marriages because of this little
mistake. Remember the mistake of Sarah in the Bible.18 Simple Ways To Handling Your House Maids.Part 2
You need to get divine wisdom to handle them; this is what I have put together as rules for handling
house maids:18 Simple Ways To Handling Your House Maids.Part 2
1: NO BOY, IF GIRLS
Don't ever employ a house boy if you have only girls as children. Experience has shown that a
whole lots of little girls are been deflowered by their mother’s house help. Get female house
help, if you have only girls.
2: NO GIRL, IF BOYS.
Likewise, if all your children are male, don't employ a female house maid. There are lots of cases
where house maids sexually molest the boys of their madams. Rather, get a house boy.
3: NO YOU IN HER
Don't give your old dresses that your husband likes on you to your maid, lest your husband begin
to see you in her. Those clothes that look beautiful and may-be sexy on you that made your
husband to fall for you several times SHOULD NEVER be given to your maid. Don't make your
husband feel that there is no difference between the two of you and get carried away as he sees
you in her.
4: NO HARSH TREATMENT
A young house maid seduced her madam’s husband to bed and nearly took over the house. When
she was interrogated; she said, that is her own way of dealing with her madam who had been so
cruel to her.
Another maid ran into the house of one of their neighbors just to escape the man of the house
who insisted on sleeping with her. She told the neighbor what happened and that she will never
do that kind of thing with “Oga” because madam has been so good to her, she later left that
house voluntarily losing her job. She said, “I will never hurt that good woman"
What is the difference between the two stories? One woman was cruel and lost her husband and
another one was good and saved her marriage.18 Simple Ways To Handling Your House Maids.Part 2
5: TRAVEL LESS:
Avoid constant traveling leaving your husband and children at the mercy of your maid; you may
not meet your home the way you left it.
6: TREAT HER WELL
Treat your maid always the same way you treat your children, remember maids have parent too,
they are only unfortunate, and your children could have been in her shoe if not for the mercy of
God.
7: CHILDREN RESPECT
Never allow your children to disrespect her, let them respect her, she is older than them. Don't
tell them she is just an house girl, let them see her as their sister and respect her like that.
8: KITCHEN OWNER
Don't surrender your kitchen to your maid, she should never be the one cooking your husband’s
food or serving him, men always fall in love with the hands that cook and serve their food.
9: BE UNPREDICTABLE
Get home at times when your maid least expects you. Cut short your journey at times to arrive a
day earlier than planned. Just be unpredictable, don't allow your maid to be able to predict you
accurately. Your discovery may shock you.18 Simple Ways To Handling Your House Maids.Part 2
