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15 Raw Secrets About Sex Among Couples
The Bible’s stand on s*x is clear. Couples should know them, to make the most of their s*x life a sweet one in their marriage
1. God the founder of marriage is the founder of s*x And God blessed them, and God said unto them, be fruitful
and multiply, and replenish the earth and subdue it … (Gen. 2:28). Man cannot multiply without sex. This is the first
place the scripture speaks about sex, though indirectly.
2. Satisfy each other at all times; don’t deny each other except for fasting and prayer. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence, and likewise also the wife unto the husband. Defraud ye not one another except it
be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and come together again, that Satan
tempt you not for your incontinency 1Cor. 7:3, 5.
3. The body of the wife belongs to the husband and the body of the husband belongs to the wife. The wife hath no power, of her own body, but the husband and likewise also the husband hath no power of his own body, but the wife (1Cor. 7:4). My beloved is mine and I am his, he feedeth among the lilies SOS. 2:16.
4. Have s*x with your spouse. Be contented with the body of your mate. Drink water from thy own cistern, and running waters from thine own well. Let thy fountain be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets. Let her be as loving hind and pleasant roes. Let her breasts satisfy thee at all times and be ravished always with her love Prov. 5:15, 19.
5. It is better to marry and have s*x with one’s partner than to burn with passion (lust). Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication let every
man have his own wife and let every woman have her own husband. But if they cannot contain, let them marry, for it is better to marry than to burn 1Cor.7:1-2, 9.
6. s*x with somebody else’s wife is dangerous and can destroy your life. Hearken unto me now therefore, o ye
children, and attend to the words of my mouth. Let not thine heart inclines to her (strange woman) ways; go not astray in her paths. For she hast cast down many wounded, yea many strong men have been slain by her. Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death Proverbs 7:24-27.
7. s*x is likened to drinking water. Drink water out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well
Proverbs 5:15. s*x should be as natural as drinking of water; do not fight about it. Rather, do it often.
8. Kissing is recommended. Do not allow it to fade away in marriage. Set it as a duty to kiss your spouse daily. It is a
form of intimacy and it shows love. As an important form of contact, never allow it to die in your marriage. Kissing
during love-making is good, exciting and lovely, but don’t just limit kissing to love making time only. Let him kiss me
with the kisses of his mouth, for thy love is better than wine Songs of Solomon 1:2.
9. Women can initiate s*x with their husbands. By night on my bed, I sought for whom my soul loveth. I sought
him, but I found him not. I will arise now, and go about the streets, and in the broad ways I will seek him whom my soul loveth Songs of Solomon 3:1, 2. Good Christian wives should learn to initiate sex. It is good and biblical… Seek he whom your heart loveth.
10. Variety in sex. You should develop appropriate techniques of love making. His left hands should be under my heart, and his right hand should embrace me Songs of Solomon 8:3.
11. Change of venue. s*x should not just be in your room and on your bed. The Bible encourages change of venue.
Come, my beloved, let us go forth into the field; let us lodge in the villages, let us get up early to the vineyard, let us see if the vine flourish, whether the tender grape appear, and the pomegranates bud forth: there will I give thee my loves Songs of Solomon 7:11, 12.
12. s*x can take place anywhere in privacy. Let us get up early to the vineyards, let us see if the vine flourish Songs
of Solomon 7:12.
13. Your spouse is the best; everything you want in a man/woman as far as love, s*x and marriage is concerned are embedded in your spouse. Just take your time to explore it and enjoy your life; you need not look for satisfaction elsewhere. It is loaded and secured in your spouse. My beloved is white and ruddy, the chiefest among ten thousand Songs of Solomon 5:10.
14. Wives should not be ashamed to allow their husbands look at their nakedness. Return, return, O Shulamite, return, return, that we may look upon thee. What will you see in the Shulamite? As it was the company of two
armies SOS. 6:13.
15. Wives should practice ‘Garden of Eden’ at home. Be generous in showing your husband your nakedness. Men are moved by what they see; don’t be ‘decent’ with your man. When you are with your husband, unwrap the gifts which you are to him; the crown of the gift of God to him is what you are. Enjoy undressing before your man and experiment with sleeping naked beside your loving husband. You are in order.
