GREAT THINGS MEN STOP AFTER WEDDING
-Bisi Adewale
GREAT THINGS MEN STOP AFTER WEDDING
GREAT THINGS MEN STOP AFTER WEDDING-Most men change totally after the wedding turning from a lover boy to an uncaring husband even atimes to wicked leader and dictator. I want to mention here some things men stop doing after their weddings.
– Attention withdrawn. The posture of most toasters is, you mean so much to me, but when they get the lady, story change to “the world means much more to me than you!”
-Most men neglect their wives in pursuit of money
– Not spending time with their wives. Even when they are at home, it is to watch television, work on laptop and surf the net.
– Birthday bash stop. Most men don’t remember their wives’ birthdays not to talk of celebrating it.
-They stop giving gifts
– Service and sacrifice stops. Most men are masters, they can’t serve their wives.
– Excitement ceased. Most men don’t show any excitement when they see their wives unlike the way they normally do when they woo their girlfriends.
– Fun Ends. No time to have fun with their wives.
– No Romance. Most married men are not romantic at home, all they want is sex.
-Blame replaces praise.
– Abusive words replace sweet words of romance.
– “I am happy to have you”, turns into “you are fortunate to have me”.
– Protection of the lady from others turns into attack from the man.
-Digging past mistakes.
– Acceptance stops as the man begins to compare his wife with other women.
– Taking their wives for granted.
– No more dating of these wives, no more playfulness or fun.
WHAT TO DO TO RESTORE LOVE
If it is your desire to build a better home and preserve your marriage, then do the following:
– Check where you’ve stopped the chase.
– Ask your spouse to tell you areas where you have changed from a toaster to a ringer or poser to a homer.
– Deliberately work together to start the chase all over again.
– Introduce fun, playfulness, sweet talk, romantic talk, dating, etc into your marriage.
– Create time to be together alone having fun.
– Create time for romantic outings together.
– Attend social gatherings together.
– Attend church together.
– Create time for good sex together.
-Play together
– Let friendship return into your marriage.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
