11 AREAS OF TRANSPARENCY IN MARRIAGE

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11 AREAS OF TRANSPARENCY IN MARRIAGE
Bisi Adewale

Transparency is the state of being open and honest; having nothing to hide.
If someone is transparent, it means that person does not hide or conceal anything. It means observers who want to know what this “someone” is up to are free to observe. A person who is “transparent” has no secrets and tells no lies.
Being transparent is not a weakness but strength at the core level. Sharing ideas and information will allow companies to get a new perspective, new opinions and better insight. Problems will be solved faster and more efficiently if you learn to be open and honest.
 
WHAT TRANSPARENCY IN MARRIAGE IS
Transparent marriages are those in which each partner commits to open and have honest interaction. Such interactions mean that partners get to know each other on deeper levels, this fosters intimacy in marriage
Transparency also means allowing your significant other to feel safe enough with you to share their deepest hopes, fears, failure, vision, aspiration, struggles and triumphs with you. In other words, it is a deep and vital give and take between two lovers. In sex, both lovers need to be vulnerable to each other for it to be most fulfilling..
 
11 AREAS OF TRANSPARENCY IN MARRIAGE
1. Financial Transparency: Be open about money matters. Let your spouse know where you are making your money and how you spend it. Let him or her know your income, debts, financial challenges, investments, savings, vision, and any of your financial commitments to others.
 
2. Family Transparency: Be open about what is going on in your family between you and your parents, siblings and other members of your family.
 
3. Friendship Transparency: Do not hide your friends and your dealings with them from your spouse.
 
4. Phones Transparency: Never put codes or passwords on your phone without your spouse knowing it. Be open if you have nothing to hide.
 
5. Background Transparency: Let your spouse know your past and what happened in your life when you were younger.
 
6. Failure Transparency: Don’t hide your failure and challenges from your spouse. You are supposed to face them together. Why hide them?
 
7. Career Transparency: Be open to your spouse about what is happening in your career.
 
8. Promotion Transparency: Be open about good things that are happening in your life. Let your spouse be part of your joy.
 
9. Project Transparency: Do not hide your projects from your spouse. Envision and execute them together. Face your projects at every stage together.
 
10. Sexual Transparency: Never have any sexual dealings secretly with anyone outside your marriage. Be open and keep to your spouse.
 
11. Total Transparency: Be open and totally transparent to your spouse in all things and in every way.

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Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 100 other books on marriage and family life. You can follow him on Instagram and Twitter @bisiadewale or reach him on askbisiadewale@gmail.com , 08068312004, and blogs daily on www.bisiadewale.com