11 KEYS TO TOTAL FULFILLMENT IN MARRIAGE
To have total fulfillment in Marriage their are eleven keys you must use.
1) BUILD YOUR FOUNDATION ON THE ROCK OF AGES
1 Corinthians 3:11
For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ.
~~ Don’t base your foundation on money
~~ Don’t base your foundation on Wealth
~~ Don’t base your foundation on Beauty
~~ Don’t base your foundation on position
~~ Base your foundation on principle of Christ to avoid crisis.11 keys to total fulfillment in marriage
2) SOUND HEALTH MANAGEMENT
— Great health is the foundation of fulfillment in the family
— Your health is your responsibility
— Devil is not the cause of your health issues most of the time
— God is not the cause of your sickness
— Fork and Knife is your enemy
3) SOUND FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT
Proverbs 21:17 KJV
He that loveth pleasure shall be a poor man: he that loveth wine and oil shall not be rich.
<> You need to know Ms of Money in Marriage
— Make it
— Manage it
— Master it.
— Maximize it
4) SEEK WISDOM
Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding. (Proverbs 4:7 KJV)
— Wisdom that won a boyfriend can not keep a husband
— There is a special way to handle a woman for a long lasting marriage,get it.
— Get wisdom for every stage of your marriage
— increase wisdom about Money in marriage,intimacy,communication,parenting,sex etc.
5) UNDERSTANDING OF MARRIAGE
Proverbs 24:3
Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established:
<> Marriage is a relationship that cannot survive:
selfishness,
impatience,
domineering,
inequality,
and lack of respect.
<> Marriage is a relationship that thrives on:
acceptance,
equality,
sharing,
giving,
helping,
doing one’s part,
Continuous learning
togetherness
Prayer
enjoying humor.
6) TOTAL ACCEPTANCE OF YOUR SPOUSE
Thou art all fair, my love; there is no spot in thee. (Song of Solomon 4:7 KJV)
— God never promise you a perfect person but a Good one
— He that findeth a wife finds a GOOD THING,not a perfect thing
— Acceptance is the key of full joy in marriage
— Contentment is a choice
— Comparison is the number one killer of contentment and acceptance in marriage
7) FAITHFULNESS:
Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find? (Proverbs 20:6 KJV)
— Don’t look for sex outside it come in a package of death
— If you are wise be faithful to your spouse
8) PRAYER IS THE KEY
Mark 11:24 KJV
[24] Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them , and ye shall have them .
— Couples that stays together are the couples that have been praying together,
— couples that prays together will easily surmount their problems and stay together.
— Prayer plays a strategic role in the making of a successful home.
— Many forces may militate against your marriage; you will need prayers to stop them.
— Create time to pray together for your love life, attitude, emotions, unity, pregnancy and delivery; your job, ministry, children and many more.
9) CONTINUOUS TRAINING 11 keys to total fulfillment in marriage
— Every marriage is a Work in progress.
— Don’t allow arrival mentality in your marriage.
— keep on working on it,keep on learning
10) CONTINUOUS TOGETHERNESS
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
[9] Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. [10] For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. [11] Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone ? [12] And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
— You are Stronger together,
— if you want to go FAST,go alone,
if you want to go FAR,go together
— There is Energy in one,but there is Synergy in two
11) AUTHENTIC LOVE 11 keys to total fulfillment in marriage
— Base your marriage on authentic love not on romantic love that will not last for it is base on emotion without roots
— Authentic love is a giving love,romantic love is a demanding love
John 3:16 KJV
[16] For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
— Authentic love is action love,Romantic love is selfish
Song of Songs 2:4 11 keys to total fulfillment in marriage
He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love.
— Infatuation or romantic love is when you find somebody who is absolutely perfect.
— Authentic Love is when you realize that they aren’t and it doesn’t matter.
