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FULLNESS OF JOY IN THE FAMILY

May 22, 2016

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FULLNESS OF JOY IN THE FAMILY
Psalm 16:8-11
[8] I have set the Lord always before me: because he is at my right hand, I shall not be moved.
[9] Therefore my heart is glad, and my glory rejoiceth: my flesh also shall rest in hope.
[10] For thou wilt not leave my soul in hell; neither wilt thou suffer thine Holy One to see corruption.
[11] Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.

FULLNESS OF GOD
For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous. For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith. (1 John 5:3, 4 KJV)

FULLNESS OF KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM
Grow into maturity,
When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. (1 Corinthians 13:11 KJV)

FULLNESS OF APPRECIATION
As the fining pot for silver, and the furnace for gold; so is a man to his praise. (Proverbs 27:21 KJV)

FULLNESS OF LOVE
MANY GOT MARRIED BASE ON ROMANTIC LOVE BUT IT TAKES AUTHENTIC LOVE TO ENJOY BLISS IN MARRIAGE.
He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love. (1 John 4:8 KJV)

FULLNESS OF ATTENTION
I am my beloved’s, and his desire is toward me. Come, my beloved, let us go forth into the field; let us lodge in the villages. (Song of Solomon 7:10, 11 KJV)
FULLNESS OF PRAYER
Your marriage will ever need prayer at every stage.
Mark 11:24 KJV
[24] Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them , and ye shall have them .

FULLNESS OF GODLY PARENTING
10 KEYS TO RAISE PROPER CHILDREN
1) VISION
“Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.”
??Proverbs? ?29:18? ?KJV??
— Have a vision of what you want to see and where you want your Child to be in future.
— work together with your spouse and the Child towards it.
2) MODELING: “Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.
??1 Corinthians? ?11:1? ?KJV??
— Be what you want your Children to be.
— lead them by Example
3) UNITY
“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!”
??Psalms? ?133:1? ?
— Proper marriage Relationship is the only one that can raise Proper Children
— Stand together in Unity to raise a Proper Child.
4) KNOWLEDGE:
— Understand parenting by Gender
— Understand Parenting by Age
— Understand Parental responsibility
— Understand Parental Mistakes
— Understand Parental Limitations
5) TRAINING
“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverbs? ?22:6? ?KJV??
— A Child not train up will go down
— Training is a marathon race not a sprint.

6) MONITORING
“The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.” ??Proverbs? ?29:15? ?KJV??
— Let there be background check always.
— Check their phones
— Check their Rooms
— Check their Friends and friendship
— Check their behavior and attitude
— Check their Language
— Check their School work
— Check their Spiritual life
— Check their bags
7) AVAILABILITY
— If they don’t see you when they are young,you won’t see them when you are Old.
8) COMMUNICATION:
“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.”
??Ephesians? ?4:29? ?KJV??
— Talk to them,don’t Shout on them.
— As your Children grows you Communication with them must grow and Change.
9) PRAYER
“Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.”
??Psalms? ?127:1? ?KJV??
— Your best effort is not enough,bring God into the scene.
— A Child of many prayers can not go astray.
10) DISCIPLINE
“Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.” ??Proverbs? ?23:13? ?KJV??
— Let their be Age- Appropriate discipline
— if you love them too much not to discipline them,they will hate you for it in Future.