3 KEYS TO A SUPERB MARRIAGE

3 KEYS TO A SUPERB MARRIAGE

By Bisi Adewale 

 Your Marriage can become supper if you understand what it takes

  With the right keys, you can open any door

 You need to apply the right key to get your desire result in Marriage

1. PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD

 “By this we know that we love the children of God when we love God and keep his commandments.”

 1 John 5:2 KJV

• The greatest thing that can happen to a youth, Wife or Husband is to have God as the Captain of her Ship.
• More than your husband or wife, more than your Children must be God at the centre of your heart.
• You are defenceless if the holy one of Isreal is not your Commander in Chief.
• People can disappoint greatly
• Christianity is not a religion its a Father and Son relationship
• Been born again is not enough you must have a relationship with God

 

2. WISDOM OF GOD

“Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.”

 Proverbs 4:7 KJV

Strength can not win for you but Wisdom will always triumph. You won’t be disappointed for you have His instructions guiding you.

 

YOU NEED WISDOM IN THE FOLLOWING AREAS

 

• IN MARITAL CHOICE MAKING:Don’t choose foolishly Matthew 7:24- 27

 24: Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:

 25 And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock.

 26: And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand:

 27: And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house, and it fell: and great was the fall of it.”

 Matthew 7:24-27 KJV

 There are two ways to choose:

 1) Wisely

 2) Foolishly

• IN-LAWS MANAGEMENT

 Prayer

 Patience

Giving

• SPOUSE MANAGEMENT

1. Do not look for a perfect spouse, celebrate a good one (Proverb 18:22)
2. Guide the gate of your heart, its the Master gate of your house.
3. “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”

 Proverbs 4:23 KJV

1. Have a proper control of your mouth, it can ruin your home

 “Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.”

 Proverbs 4:24 KJV

1. Build a wall around your marriage
2. If there must be peace in your marriage, then you must build walls around your family.

 “Peace be within thy walls, and prosperity within thy palaces.”

 Psalms 122:7 KJV

1. Build a boundary around your home

 “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.”

 Genesis 2:24-25 KJV

1. Build a bridge between yourself and your spouse

 “And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.” Mark 10:8 KJV

 

• CHILDREN MANAGEMENT

1. Stop shouting on your Children
2. Stop indulging your Children
3. Stop Child abuse
4. Don’t raise boys like Girls
5. Don’t raise teenagers like Toddlers.

3. PRAYER OF FAITH

 “Kings of armies did flee apace: and she that tarried at home divided the spoil.”

 Psalms 68:12 KJV

 THE BIBLE COMMANDED PRAYER

 “Pray without ceasing.”

 1 Thessalonians 5:17 KJV

 Wisdom of Men can fail woefully but With God, all will end well.

  Crying cannot help, weeping will not solve any problem, but prayer can pull down strongholds.

 There are Iron bars, there are ancient gates, there are rock-solid enemies, but the power of God that can be gotten by PRAYER can not fail.

 WHAT PRAYER CAN DO

 Can break ancient gates

 Can win the Heart of the kings

 Can resist the invading army of the alien

 Makes Victory sure

 Pray for your project,

 yourself,

 your spouse,

your children.

 

Bisi Adewale 2020