3 KEYS TO A BETTER MARRIAGE
Bisi Adewale
There are three hidden things that are been ignored but they are the keys to a better marriage,if you get them right then are sure of a great marriage
1) RIGHTEOUSNESS
Isaiah 54:14 KJV
[14] In righteousness shalt thou be established: thou shalt be far from oppression; for thou shalt not fear: and from terror; for it shall not come near thee.
— Righteousness means right standing with God,right standing for God,right standing in God,right standing like God
— Standing right with God will make you stand right with your spouse
— When you are not righteous you can do any evil thing in marriage
2) SOLID FOUNDATION
Psalm 11:3
If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?
— If your foundation is ROUGH your life will be TOUGH
— TERRIBLE foundation is the mother of HORRIBLE marriage
<> TWO WAYS TO CHOOSE
1) — Your Foundation should be on Christ Jesus
1 Corinthians 3:11
For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ.
2) — Get adequate information about choosing
<> WRONG WAYS TO CHOOSE
— Choosing Unbelievers
— Choice making Base on Money
— Choice making Base on his place of work,outlook,Dark,Tall,Muscular with Baritone Voice
— Choice making Base on her beauty,Curve,Brazilian hair,pointed nose
<> RIGHT WAYS TO CHOOSE
— Patience
— Divine Direction
— Love
— Counsel
— Preparation
3) DIVINE WISDOM
Proverbs 4:7 KJV
[7] Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.
— Wisdom is the key to the success of any venture
Proverbs 24:3-5 KJV
<> ABSENCE OF WISDOM IS THE REASON PEOPLE HAVE TERRIBLE MARRIAGE OR DIVORCE
Fools because of their transgression, and because of their iniquities, are afflicted.”
??Psalms? ?107:17? ?KJV
<> YOUR LEVEL OF WISDOM WILL DETERMINE THE DESTINY OF YOUR MARRIAGE
[3] Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established:
[4] And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches.
[5] A wise man is strong; yea, a man of knowledge increaseth strength.
— To build a great house you need wisdom
— To Sustain a house you need wisdom
Not nagging,fighting,malice etc
<>TWO WAYS TO APPLY WISDOM
1) ACT WITH WISDOM
2) REACT WITH WISDOM
<> FOOLISH THINGS PEOPLE DO IN MARRIAGE
Fighting like baby
Keeping malice like Teenagers
Strike actions
Reporting spouses
Issuing of threat
Wife battering
Rejection of food
<> WHERE TO GET WISDOM
Books
Seminars
Tapes
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
3 KEYS TO A BETTER MARRIAGE
