Marriage

7 MYTHS TO STOP TELLING WOMEN ABOUT MARRIAGE

August 11, 2016

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By Bisi Oludare

There are a lot of myths flying over today and ladies a gullibly believing as true and a measure to get married. If anything is wrong from the beginning, nothing can make it right or for it to be right afterwards a lot of work will be done which could cost you more. Getting anything you want to do right from the beginning is the way to God.

Remember, if the foundation is destroyed…..

Don’t allow anybody to sell false news to you as true.

These are some of the myths you need to stop believing from every Tom, Dick and Harry that come your way to sell them to you;

AN ELABORATE WEDDING IS A SIGN THAT YOUR MARRIAGE WILL BE BLISSFUL – oooopssssss, says who. This is a wrong believe, even the kind of wedding you have has got absolutely nothing to do with whether the marriage will be blissful or not. This is false
GETTING PREGNANT BEFORE MARRIAGE IS THE BEST – this is one lie that not only affects your marriage later but also grieves God because He has given the instruction that you shouldn’t defile the marriage bed. Some will even say to prove to them the lady is fertile and this has crept into the church where some ladies will say a Prophet told them is the right thing to do. Is the Prophet God? Any man that is telling you anything contrary to God’s word is fake. Peradventure you even get pregnant but after your wedding ceremony you lose the baby, what will become of you in that home? Think twice lady!
WOMEN NEED TO BE MARRIED TO BE HAPPY – does that now mean your happiness is tied to a man. Hear this, if you are not happy as a single, you will make a man’s life miserable as a married because you will have unrealistic expectations and the man is not God.
SUCCESSFUL CAREER WOMEN CAN NOT BE SUCCESFUL IN MARRIAGE – I am sure you know the virtuous woman everybody wants to be like in the Bible? She is an epitome of an all-round success. So, don’t believe that lie. Even, once you marry the right man, you will together make a success of your career
IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED BEFORE 30, IT IS ALREADY LATE – that’s one fat lie and who says that in the fact place? Does marriage now have an expiry date? The truth is you can get married at any time, just get it right. Biological age may be tickling; you can switch to God’s time.
WOMEN YOUR AGE ARE MARRIED, WHAT ARE YOU STILL DOING? That’s actually a wrong statement that is not meant to move you because you are not other women your age but you are you. Specially created for a purpose to be fulfilled with the right man.
MEN DON’T LIKE VIRGINS – this last one is a great lie from the pit of hell and the devil is even happy about it. There are no two ways to been the original you God created. Virginity is still the in thing, it is in vogue and men are dying to marry a virgin. It makes the man to absolutely trust you and it makes him respect you. Don’t get carried away with this lie and do what you will regret later in life. Keep your virginity for the right man, there is nothing as beautiful as being a tear rubber or brand new as people will call it.