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Revealing The 2 Secret Relationship Skills That Saved Over 80% Marital Crisis
by Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lagosi | January 8th, 2024
Your marriage begins to reach crisis mode when conflicts becomes more consistent and especially when often left unresolved.
Almost everyone fantasises about their wedding day and the marital journey of living with their spouse as the best thing that will happen to them…
Until they eventually get married and realise there is work to be done in the marriage.
A large percentage of married couples consciously and subconsciously choose to ignore the work needed to have their marriage become the one they’ve always dreamed about.
And this brings some more resentment into the home, with the marriage getting sour by the day and its walls cracking daily.
Others take a decision to deal with the problem but do that by either blaming themselves entirely or blame their spouse entirely for being the cause of the issues in the marriage.
And because of this, the problem continues to boil and expand until it reaches a maximum boiling point of divorce.
In fact, a Kuwait couple once divorced themselves just within 3 minutes of marriage in the court,
Just 3 minutes of marriage!!!!!
Others have gotten to this boiling point within just hours and days of marital life…
While others continue to endure the trauma faced in the marriage hoping that one day there will suddenly be a change.
If you’re in that category, this article is for you.
I am writing this article for you so you can join the 4th sets of couples TODAY…
The fourth set of couples are those who through studying, observation , and a bit of introspection have come to understand the reason behind many marital failures they have seen others have.
And they have chosen to work on their marriage together with their spouse in order to build a tantalising, beautiful, joyful, romantic, and peaceful marriage
Which is the marriage of their dreams.
The question then is:
“how can YOU or anyone in marriage do the work to build a lasting and beautiful marriage before you die in a toxic marriage?”
But before that?
What Leads To Crisis In Every Marriage?
I have counselled over 1000 married couples since over 20 years as a professional marriage counsellor and I have come to a conclusion as to why marriages suffer crisis and eventually fail.
You may have been thinking that your spouse is the problem in your marriage…
Or thinking maybe you married wrongly
Or maybe that crisis in your marriage is just because you ignored the red flags during courtship.
So all the blame for the crisis lies on your spouse or on you.
While you may be partially right….
But that’s not all there is to the reason for any marital crisis.
Why do I say that?
Because even if the Almighty God speaks from heaven to you and your partner and joins your hands in marriage…
You most likely will still have the same crisis in that heavenly arranged marriage.
Why?
Because all marriages have conflict in them at one point or the other.
The difference is that some married couples resolve their conflicts while some allow their conflicts to grow into crises.
So here are the two reasons why marriages suffer crisis and eventually end up in divorce
1. Difficulty In Handling Conflict In Marriage
Yes.
Your partner’s concerns are valid
Your concerns are also valid
Until you see these two statements as realities, you will always avoid being committed to your spouse and handling any conflict wisely.
And because you believe mere having conflict means something must be wrong with your marriage or the person you married...
You then fail to set things in order and make decisions that gets you and your spouse to get to a point of conflict resolution.
Which then leads further into marital crisis if left unchecked and especially if it happens more often than it is resolved.
2. Lack Of Intimacy In Marriage
When was the last time you and your spouse displayed sincere affection with each other?
You see, if you don’t understand how to cultivate intimacy with your spouse….
Then your marriage has only one destiny- to fail.
But that is not your portion….only if you start learning how to build intimacy in marriage
You want your marriage to work
And I want to help you fix the crisis in your marriage
Is This Universally Proven?
Now you may be wondering if this is universally proven or if I just came up with the claim.
A study by Forbes as seen below shows more than 50% of the people reveal lack of commitment, infidelity, and too much conflict as the leading course of their divorce.
As you can see for yourself…
These first 3 causes still boil down to the two things you must resolve to have a peaceful, tantalising, and loving marriage with your spouse which are:
- Difficulty in Handling Conflicts
- Lack of Intimacy
And you can resolve both issues today if you are willing to save your marriage immediately
All you need is to learn the skills for handling crisis and cultivating intimacy.
But How Come a Lot of Couples Are Not Handling These Two Causes Well?
There are three reasons:
(1) They haven't come to realise and admit these are the causes for the crisis
(2) They know about these causes but they've wasted time seeking a shortcut to marital success rather than taking action
(3) They have chosen to take action but really haven't learnt the skills required to take the precise and accurate actions to handle conflict and cultivate intimacy in marriage.
But the good thing is that you can turn your marriage around today
Talking about learning the skills required to handle conflict and cultivate intimacy in marriage, permit me to introduce you to the course bundle I created to help you build the romantic and peaceful marriage of your dream.
This Marriage Miracle Bundle is a bundle of two courses that teaches you:
The Technicality of Handling Conflict In Marriage
The Science of Intimacy in Marriage
With these two skills, you can build a lasting romantic marriage with your spouse without you worrying whether or not your marriage will work
Because it will work.
If your marriage is sacred to you and you have vowed to God that you must have a peaceful, joyful, and romantic marriage, then go ahead and get the Marriage Miracle Bundle now
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