When You Are Tired Of Your Marriage -Things You Must Not Do
When You Are Tired Of Your Marriage -Things You Must Not Do
-Pst Bisi Adewale
Are you tired of your marriage? Is your marriage really hurting? Are you thinking of packing it up? Are you looking for the exit door? Then you need to read this piece to know the best thing to do. I agree that marriage can be hurting atimes, it can sometimes get to the boiling point, and make the parties involve look for the way to “evaporate” from the home. But there are solutions to this; you must not take step on your marriage at this stage without counsel, you must be careful lest you offend God
. THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO
1. Never separate. Some couples do erroneously think that it is better to “give a gap” when there is crisis “so as to make the temper cool down”. The truth is, the longer you separate from your spouse the more difficult it becomes to come together again. Avoid separation as much as possible. Stay in that marriage to make it work.
2. Never involve the third party. There is always the temptation of involving outside parties whenever their is crisis at home, but most of the time third party is always bias and may not say the truth or may even have their hidden agenda against your marriage hence never involve 3rd party except your pastor and counsellor.
3. Never give up. Do not give up on your marriage, it is not yet over. Never say you have tried your best, until your marriage becomes the best, you have not tried your best.
When You Are Tired Of Your Marriage -Things You Must Not Do
4. No divorce. Never think of divorce, don’t even consider it as an option, stay in that marriage to make it work.
Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, He is an international conference speaker and an author of more than 52 books on marriage and family life, singles, love, sex and purity and intimacy. He is the host of family T.V. program called Family Booster Moments. Get daily lesson and teaching and articles from his blog: bisiadewale.com and You can also get his resources and also send an mail to familybooster@yahoo.com. for any counselling issue. Visit https://bisiadewale.com for daily updating! and click “LIKE” to be my fan on Face book http://www.facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
When You Are Tired Of Your Marriage -Things You Must Not Do
