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Pre-Marital Sex – Causes of premarital sex Pt 2

February 19, 2011

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-Bisi Adewale

Pre-marital sex is what most youths engage in before marriage while extra-marital sex is what some married people indulges in, when they are not faithful to their partner. Pure, holy or legal sex is the only legitimate sex, it occurs between married couples. It is Holy and wonderful, God loves it and it brings purity. I Cor. 7:5-7.

(1) Environmental influence – We live in a corrupt society where people do not see anything bad in ungodliness” they do not see pre-marital sex as sin; they see it as a normal thing (“just like taking food”). Hence, girls are encouraged to dress exposing their bodies. Pre-marital sex has become the norm of the society. Some Christian youths find it difficult to cope in this kind of environment; hence, they fall into this ungodly act.
(2) Covetousness – Greed for money, wealth and position is another cause of pre-marital sex. Some ladies want money at all costs hence they are ready to use their bodies to get it by sleeping around with men.
(3) Indiscipline- Lack of discipline has led many singles into the dungeon of pre-marital sex.
(4) Wrong association – This has led many youth into destruction. Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are.
(5) Ignorance – Lack of good sex education has led many youth into pre-marital sex, some went into it not knowing what they were doing.
(6) Wrong information – Since parents have refused to educate their children on the subject and the church is not forth-coming with anything meaningful, the youth have resorted to any information they can get from anywhere either wrong or right. I remembered that the first time I ever heard anything about sex was from one boy in my class when I was in primary six. Of course, He was a wrong source of information.
(7) Bad parenting – Children that are not well brought up are likely to fall into wrong hands.
(12) Idleness – An idle hand is the devil’s workshop. If you are idle, you may cuddle the devil.
(8) Drunkenness – Alcohol has led many into error.
(9) Loneliness – Some claim they went into fornication due to loneliness.
(10) Broken homes – Children from broken homes can fall into wrong hands due to the situation of their homes.
(11) Impatience – Urge to get married at all costs has led many into error.

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, Whatsaap 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter @bisiadewale

Pre-Marital Sex – Causes of premarital sex Pt 2