The Making Of Humorous Marriage

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The Making Of Humorous Marriage

Bisi Adewale 

“All the days of the afflicted are evil, but he who is of a merry heart has a continuous feast”. (Proverbs 15:15)

One great but often neglected way to build a hot and sizzling marriage is to go the way of humour, to crack jokes and laugh heartily together.

Humour involves an ability to be deliberately funny and entertaining, especially in a clever way. It also means the ability to understand and enjoy the amusing situation or the ability to remain cheerful and joyful in the face of difficulties. Couples that mastered the act of humour do make their homes a better place to be.

One good thing about humour and jokes is that anybody can do it and everybody enjoy good jokes . A marriage full of humour is known as friendship marriage, while a marriage without humour is known as PLASTIC MARRIAGE OR EXECUTIVE MARRIAGE. Good humour can transform your marriage.

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It can also remove strain from your home and make your marriage lively. It is a good example for your children because it brings joy to the family and make companionship an enjoyable one. It also makes communication easier. It is a good way to demonstrate love and also good for your health.

Humour- less marriage are also known with many negative things. Constant strife, bitterness and resentment is common, little things will end up causing serious dispute. Unforgiveness is likely to set in. It builds very dry and drab marriage. It makes marriage monotonous and uninteresting. Loneliness is possible while companionship is always difficult.

Humour in marriage is known to make couple happier and love to be together. These kinds of couples do miss each other passionately when one of them travels. They fight less, communicate affectionately, making them good friends and thereby making it difficult for third parties to come between them. Separation and divorce are unlikely in these kind of marriages.

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Couples that are not humourous on the other hands do live as sworn enemies. They hardly miss each other, do feel lonely even in the presence of their spouses and can easily be drawn away by strange women or men.

Humour can either be good or bad. Bad humour can be immoral jokes; jokes that seek to degrade or embarrass your spouse. Joking about one’s spouse weakness can be hurtful. Revealing ones mate’s secret through jokes or making his/her family a matter of negative jokes is also not good. We also need to realize that there are some jokes we can crack when one is alone with one spouse that will not upset. If they are done in the public it may be annoying.

Good jokes are jokes that are not focused to bring down one’s spouse but that is enjoyed by all with rib cracking laughter.

Let your humour be positive. Do it with the intention of making your spouse happy. Enjoy jokes together, laugh, smile, relax and enjoy yourself. Marriage is not a battlefield. It is a place of joy and pleasure.

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Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, Whatsaap 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.com, facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter @bisiadewale