Elements Of Acceptance In Marriage

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Elements Of Acceptance In Marriage

Elements Of Acceptance In Marriage

Husband and wife cannot live together in love and harmony without accepting each other. Where acceptance is absent, there will be cold war, disagreement, disunity and constant complaints Check your present complaints about your spouse and you will discover that, it is closely related to what you once admired in your spouse. The difference between then and now is that you accept him or her then but this you fail to do now. This write-up will open your eyes to the things that are prevalent at home when the
couples fail to accept each other.Elements Of Acceptance In Marriage

– Constant Complain: When you accept your spouse, you will not only love the strong points but you will embrace his/her weak points as well. But in a situation where you fail to accept, you will have too many things to complain about in your spouse.

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– Comparison: Comparison is a killer of oneness and intimacy in marriages; it can destroy any home where enough room is given to it. If you are fond of comparing your spouse with others that means you have not accepted him/her.

– Condemning: When you are fond of condemning your spouse in words and actions, it shows lack of acceptable.

– Lack of Togetherness: There is no way you can enjoy the company of who you have not accept. If you enjoy the company of other people more than your spouse or you have his or her company. It is a pointer to the fact that you have not accepted him or her.

– Lack of Commitment: Commitment is glue that makes one stick to what he loves. That calls for the reason you find it difficult to be committed to their person you have not accepted.

– Lack of Homeliness: Being at home with somebody you don’t accept is not likely to be your best time. If you don’t always want to spend quality time at home; them, check your acceptability level of your spouse.

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-Desire to Change your Spouse: If you always desire that your spouse should change in almost everything he or she does, it is a good sign that you are yet to accept him or her.Do your marriage a favor, accept your spouse the way he or she is for free-flows of love, for deeper intimate relationship and long marriage there must total acceptance in your union.Elements Of Acceptance In Marriage

Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, an international conference speaker, author of more than 70 books on marriage and family life, host of family T.V. program called Family Booster.

You can get his resources at http://www.familybooster.com and learn daily from him at https://bisiadewale.com

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