Change Your Life, Not Your Wife
By: Bisi Adewale
Change Your Life, Not Your Wife
Most Men do have the thought of changing their wives by all means, But they saw their wives as the most perfect lady before they married them, they were spotless, they cant be wrong then, but now, their wives look as if they are the most terrible women so most Men want to change their wives. Change Your Life, Not Your Wife Change Your Life, Not Your Wife
There are many things that destroys marriages and the life of many Men that nobody is really talking about, one of them is the way they think about their marriage and their wives, but among all the thinking that help turn a marriage to a h3ll are these two terrible ones, if you have them you can’t enjoy your marriage:
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TWO MOST TERRIBLE THINKING OF MEN ABOUT THEIR WIVES.
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(1) THINKING OF CHANGING THEIR WIVES:
This is when you want to change your wife from she is to what you want her to be and you are bent on doing it by all means. “Unless you become like me in this house there can be no peace” Mr Andrew Blurt out to his wife. “Until you behave the way my Mother behaves to my mother you can not enjoy me as your husband”, He concluded.
Most men have many complains about their wives, hence they develop “Change her mentality”
(a)She is too slow he want her to be fast”
(b)she dresses so slowly, he want her out of the bathroom in a jiffy and want her to dress up quickly like lightening”
(c)He doesn’t like the way she snores, she should snoring like a Bulldog”
(d)She doesn’t know how to talk rightly, she blows grammar any how”
(e)She is not fashionable, my Sectary dresses better”
(f)Her cooking is not up to the standard, those Girls cooking in the restaurant close to my office cooks better”
(g)She is not as beautiful as you thought, she will need to step up”
(h)She is too dark, she will need to tone or even bleach her body”
(i)Her dressing is too primitive, she need to leave Victorian age and enter digital age “and many more, in fact your “she must change” list is countless.
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(2) THINKING OF HAVING A CHANGE OF WIVES:
This look likes the first thinking but they are totally different. When some Men do not succeed in changing their wives to what they want then they go for the second wrong and most lethal thinking, they want a change of wife.
Some begin to belief they mis-marry, they begin to have a thought of divorcing their wives and marry other women, every other woman out there will begin to look better than their wives, in dressing, manners, attitudes, beauty etc.
These two thinking have ruined the life and marriages of many Men, don’t permit it to ruin your own
Bros, you don’t need to change your wife or a change of wife, what you need is a change of life.
