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The role sex plays in every marriage cannot be overlooked. It is the only thing in a marriage that can’t be outsourced. Other things like cooking, washing, and house chores can be outsourced by a wife. 
So there is a need for deep knowledge of sex in a marriage if a  marriage must thrive and fulfilling.

The following things adversely affect sex in marriage and you need to know how to handle them.

  1. Parenting. Childbearing and rearing can snuff life out of any marriage if care is not taken. You must carefully plan your life in such a way that you don’t allow motherhood or fatherhood to take over your bedroom. Pregnancy or breastfeeding is not a reason to refuse sex. Sex in pregnancy or after delivery has no side effects on the mother or the baby. Proverbs 16:22
  2. Familiarity. Getting too familiar with each other can also affect your sex life and destroy passion. Don’t get familiar, only get intimate. Be creative; let fire return to your sex life.
  3. Predictability. You’ve been doing it the same way, at the same time, in the same place, in the same form for a long time such that it has become predictable to both of you. You both know the routine. This is dangerous for your sex life, start doing it in a new but godly way.
  4. Daily Living. The pursuit of daily bread and being able to put butter on the bread has taken over many bedrooms; thereby making allowance for sexual infidelity. Don’t pursue your career at the expense of your marriage.
  5. You are hurt. I can’t promise that there wouldn’t be hurt in marriage, but learn to settle your differences. Don’t carry it over into your bedroom life.
  6. Ignorance. Couples are not learning about sex in marriage; they are not improving. This gives room for the devil to use their marriage against them. Proverbs 13: 20
  7. Wrong mental attitude. Many couples still believe in some myths about sex in marriage. Some couples still believe that sex must not take place on Sunday, because it is the day of the Lord. Others believe that if you have sex in the afternoon, you could give birth to an albino. Isn’t that funny? Please get our romance and sex bundle for more on this subject here https://bisiadewale.selar.co/sexandromancebundle  
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