21 Enemies of Family Progress Pt 3
-Bisi Adewale
12.Infidelity: This is another enemy of a blissful home, when unfaithfulness enters a marriage it will go to its foundation and destroy everything that makes it strong. It destroys trust, erode love, and breed hatred, strife, vengeance and unforgiveness.
Couples should learn to stick to each other instead of histing after anybody outside their marriage. Women are not different, men are the same. Everything you need about sex is loaded in your wife or husband with security, sleeping around can destroy your marriage or even cost your life.
13.Vengeance: Unforgiveness is the mother of vengeance. Vengeance continues a cycle of evil and pulls down the wall of love, acceptance, communionship, companionship, intimacy and unity. Vengeance prolongs retirement, bitterness and bickering. If you are in the habit of taking vengeance against spouse, you will end up destroying your marriage and put end to your own peace.
14.Lack of trust: No trust, no relationship, when trust departs, love goes with it and marriage becomes worse for it. Do everything to build trust in your marriage, never do anything that will make your spouse doubt sincerity or anything that will build distrust. Tell the trust, never tell lies.
Trust is always difficult to build after it might have been destroyed.
15.Visionless Leadership: When husband lack vision, direction, focus, and purpose the marriage will really flounder, no family can experience progress when the family head is visionless and focusless.
16.Clinging to tradition: Any family that is base on old, barbaric and outdated culture can never move forward. A culture that treated wives as properties or slaves and make the man a dictator and slave is not a progressive culture that frown at unity/closeness between husband and wife or that forbid husband and wife from staying in the same room or discourage the husband from supporting the wife with household chores, cooking, or caring for the baby in an ungodly culture and destructive tradition.
Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, He is an international conference speaker and an author of more than 40 books on marriage and family life, singles, love, sex and purity and intimacy. He is the host of family T.V. program called Family Booster Momments.
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