Strange Feelings In Marriage
-Bisi Adewale
Strange Feelings In Marriage
Strange Feelings In Marriage-Your marriage can never rise above your mind-set. Whether you will swim or sink in that marriage depends on the state of your mind. Thoughts and feelings affect marriage more than any other thing.
Most couples have strange feelings about their marriage, their spouses, love life, in-laws, etc. These
strange feelings come from negative mental attitudes. Let me expose these strange feelings that have been
bringing strange happenings into your life to you, so that you may avoid them.
? Feeling of “I mismarried”. You did not marry wrong. Stay in this marriage and make it work.
? Feeling of being cheated by your spouse. This will lead to fight-back, anger and bitterness. Please deal
with it. See everything you do for your spouse as a service to the Lord.
? Feeling of worthlessness. This leads to low-self esteem, when you feel you are nobody. You can’t esteem
your spouse if you don’t esteem and value yourself. Say it to yourself more than a thousand times “I am
very important, I am more than gold”. Say it until you believe it.
? Feeling of “He or she is cheating on me”. You have no proof; you just feel in your heart that your spouse
is not faithful. This is dangerous and it can destroy your marriage, it is terrible. Learn to trust your spouse
until you have reason not to do that. Suspicion and wrong accusation are dangerous.
? “My wife is a witch”. This is another dangerous assumption some African men make. Avoid it.
? “My husband does not love me”. A lot of women struggle with this. They want their husband to say “I love
you” daily. While it is good for your husband to say it, don’t wait till he says it. A lot of men are not
expressive; just believe he does.
? She wants to take over the leadership from me. Most men feel like this but this is not true.
Your wife is not planning to take over from you. Listen to her suggestions. Don’t see it as an affront, walk together in love.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
