20 Secret Of A Great Confident Woman part2
20 Secret Of A Great Confident Woman part2
When you think of the most confident women you know, like Malala Yousafzai, Oprah Winfrey, what is it these ladies have in common that allows them to approach life so fearlessly? They carry themselves with an air of success, grace, and determination. The energy changes when they enter a room. They are memorable. See how many of this list of pitfalls you avoid and how you measure up as a confident woman.
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11. They don’t see failures as defeats
In fact, they are usually the ones who can tell you how many times Henry Ford went bankrupt before he became successful (three!). They recognize that on the path to success their are always bumps in the road. The ease with which they recover allows them to keep moving forward in their determined fashion.
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12. They don’t cave to peer pressure
This is largely due to the fact that they don’t feel peer pressure. Pressure is reserved for those who stress about what others think. And the confident woman just doesn’t.
13. They don’t make unconscious choices
Confident women are in touch with their purpose and they use this to intentionally guide their decisions. This dauntless way of living intentionally is part of what draws others to them.
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14. They don’t ignore their instincts
Even when all the facts seem to point one way, if their gut says the other, that is the way they go. They know that instinct is our strongest ally in decision making so they listen to it religiously.
15. They don’t glorify busy
Productive is different than busy. They get the job done, they just don’t feel overwhelmed as they are doing it.
16. They don’t take things personally
They understand that your opinion is about you, not about them. While they value your input, if you don’t agree with their choices, they still make them. And they still like you.
17. They don’t find silence uncomfortable
In fact, silence recharges them. They enjoy alone time where they can explore personal growth and take time to reenergize.
18. They don’t aspire to be popular
They value authenticity in others and only want friends with whom they share a deep connection. They like challenging conversations and this doesn’t lead to popularity but they don’t care.
19. They don’t need personal trainers
Or alarm clocks for that mater. They motivate themselves and are excited to get the jump on their day – no snooze buttons for them.
20. They don’t want fans they want supporters
They probably have 900 Facebook friends and a ton of followers on Instagram but what they value is the content of their newsfeed, not the numbers. Quality over quantity every time.
Confident women don’t need anyone to like them. Which is probably why everyone does!
