9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married
By: Bode Akinola
9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married
1. THE DESIRE TO BE INDEPENDENT AND FREE FROM YOUR PARENTS Getting married because you are tired of having your parents monitor or control you is not enough a good reason to get married; your husband’s parents or relatives could do worse.
9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married 9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married
2.TO EASE YOUR LONELINESS Loneliness is a thing of the mind. Not only singles but married folks too gets lonely at times. No spouse will be with you all round the clock. A miserable single will be a miserable partner in marriage. Marriage doesn’t solve the problem of loneliness. There are countless married folks who are living apart from their spouse due to many reasons e.g Job,career pursuit e.t.c.
9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married 9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married
3. TO BE HAPPY You don’t have to get married before you live a happy life. Get a life as a single, enjoy life, make God your source of joy. Find a reason to laugh everyday and enjoy every opportunity of laughter life presents to you. Marriage is a vacuum, it will be filled with whatsoever you and your partner bring in to it.
9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married 9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married
4. JUST GETTING SICK OF BEING CALLED A SINGLE You don’t need a man or woman to complete yourself. You are wonderfully and marvelously created. Single-hood is just a phase of your life, enjoy it, pursue a career, set and achieve goals. One day you would wish you are still a single if you rush into marriage simply because you are tired of being a single.
9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married 9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married
5. ALL MY FRIENDS ARE married don’t rush into marriage because all your friends are married with kids.
6. IMMIGRATION PURPOSE Some people got married to their spouse simply because of the benefit of getting a stay permit in another country. It happens the world over. Many men are getting killed by these foreign women on knowing that these men had another woman in their home country.
9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married 9 Wrong Reasons Why People get Married
7. FANTASY ABOUT WEDDING RING if you badly need a ring to wear then getting married is not the only means of having one; simply go to the store and buy one and wear. Laughs
8. HATRED FOR HOUSE chores you can’t run away from house chores, if you want to leave your parent’s house because you are tired of doing house chores then getting married is not the solution. More house chores await you there.
9. BEAUTY/ HANDSOMENESS Getting married to someone because of physical beauty is like buying a house because of it’s paint. Anything can happen. Beauty is vain. Wrinkles will visit that beautiful face, those straight legs might bend with time.
