Laying Foundation For Marriage
Bisi Adewale
Laying Foundation For Marriage
No true building can stand the test of time without a solid foundation, therefore for marriage to
stand the test of time the foundation of such marriage should be critically work upon and be
solid. Here, listed some of the component of a solid foundation:Laying Foundation For Marriage
1. Good Character. "Houses are built through wisdom and by understanding it is established."
Develop good attitude that will make your marriage material and marketable. You need to purge
yourself of every bad character like talkativeness, nagging, abuses, keeping malice, anger, pride,
backbiting, gossiping, anger, stubbornness, and what have you. All these combined together to
uproot anybody from a good life and marriage. Work on yourself and allow God to breathe on
you and make you develop good character such as kindness, forgiving spirit, humility, neatness,
joyous, happiness, hospitality, all these combined will grant good marriage with God on your
side.Laying Foundation For Marriage
2. Good Choice. There no decision without a choice and whatever choice you make today
determines your future. If you choose wrongly, you will live your choice and if you allow God to
determine your marital choice; you will have a good marriage. Avail yourself the opportunity to
make God lead you to choices in life.
3. Good Communication. If you do not know how to talk well, you will not be favor by people.
Learn when and when not to talk. Proverbs 4:7 says, "Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore
get wisdom. And with all thy getting, get understanding." You must act and react wisely at all
individual difference. Develop a large heart to accommodate people with their difference. This
attitude will help you a lot in your marriage. Shalom! Laying Foundation For Marriage
Good Things That Give a Good Marriage
Every creature of God is good; the intention of God for creating marriage is good. Believe and
receive this fact in Jesus name. Amen! Laying Foundation For Marriage
1.Good God. ”Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter; fear God and keep His
commandments; for this is the whole duty of man. Acquaint now, thyself with Him and be at
peace; thereby good shall come unto thee”. Job 22:21. God Almighty is needed in the boat of
your marriage for you to sail through and not capsized. If you are yet to give your life to Jesus
and you think you can have it good in the area of marriage; you are deceiving yourself. Surrender
your totality to Him today and He will lead you aright. Your flesh and sins will lead you astray,
fornication will not give you a good marriage it is righteous life that can make God happy with
you and bless you with a good husband/wife. Accept Jesus today.Laying Foundation For Marriage
2. Good Foundation. ”;If the foundations be destroyed; what can the righteous do?” Psalm 11:3.
Solid foundation is needed for a good marriage. Lay a foundation that cannot be pulled down by
winds and storms of life. The foundation of any building determines the durability of whatever
structure you have put on it. If you want a lasting marriage then erect a good foundation that will
not make the building of your marriage to collapse. Here are some ingredient, you must put
together to have a good foundation:
Genuine Conversion. Be recognized by God so that you can receive from Him a good marital
life.
Be prayerful. Prayer is needed for a glorious marriage.
Be patient. Do not be in haste; nobody can marry the man and woman God has destined for you.
Allow God to lead you. Your naked eyes can only see the physical; but with spiritual eyes
through God; you can see the content and make up of any man and woman. Romans 8:14.
Godly Counsel. Let godly and elderly people especially your pastor and father in the Lord guide
you with spiritual knowledge and experience. ”For by wise counsel, thou shall make thy war; and
in multitude of counselors there is safety” Laying Foundation For Marriage
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
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