Love Versus Lust
-Bisi Adewale
Lust is a burning, passionate and over-powering desire to satisfy one’s sexual appetite, it often goes under the name love, but the two are extremely different.
I told you that a lot of love professors are lust possessors. Lust is the name of every wrong desire, illicit love, and inordinate affection.
What you read inside the so-called love and romance magazines is about lust not about love.
Lust is satanic, avoid it.
Infatuation is the mother of lust, lust is the mother of sin and the wages of sin is death, every lustful adventure will surely terminate in sorrow and eventual death.
One of the offshoots of infatuation and lust is romance. Since they are both based on physical attraction; they encourage romantic move like petting, kissing, caressing and sex.
All unholy sexual relationship in dark places, offices, inside parked cars, at parties are not love but lust induced.
You may argue that your own partner really loves you because he has not demanded for sex; just wait and see, he may be giving you a lot of gifts now without asking for anything, he has a target. They are like flesh eating animals, greedy but patient, hungry but careful, ruthless but watchful. They know when to attack; they are like vultures that can be hovering for hours until situation is right to grab their preys.
Some boys can wait for two years before getting what they want, I remember a boy in my class that used more than two years to chase a lady before he eventually got her, imagine? Vulture is a patient bird, be careful not to fall victim, run for your dear life.
LOVE
1. It comes from genuine affection mixed with compassion
2. It focus on God
3. It is unconditional
4. It waits till after wedding before petting, kissing and sex
5. God is the father of love
6. it pave way for purity
7. It ensures a clean heart
8. It ends in joy
9. It aid spiritual life (prayer life, bible study life etc.)
10.It enhances your fellowship with God
LUST
1. It emanates from infatuation
2. It is a fleshy desire
3. It is based on sexual satisfaction only
4. It wants sex and wants it now
5. Devil is the manufacturer of lust
6. It paves way for all sexual sins
7. It destroys the mind
8. It produces heartaches, sorrow, bitterness, guilt, fear and even death
9. It destroys spiritual life
10.It destroys fellowship with God
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
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