5 WRONG WAYS TO CHOOSE A LIFE –PARTNER
-By Bisi Adewale
This wisdom desecendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish. (James 3:15 KJV) 5 WRONG WAYS TO CHOOSE A LIFE –PARTNER
There are two kinds of wisdom; earthly wisdom and wisdom from above. Whole lots of people, children of God inclusive are using earthly or worldly wisdom to choose their life partners that is why many children of God are having the same kind of problems people of the world are having in their marriages.
Here, I want to open your eyes to the wrong ways of choosing a life partner while I will treat right ways for choosing a life partner in the next post.
- FIND THE RIGHT PERSON 5 WRONG WAYS TO CHOOSE A LIFE –PARTNER
Many people believe that the key to a lasting relationship and marriage is about finding the right person, they are always on the lookout for that Mr. or Miss right. They believe true love is magical or mystical. All you just need is to wait. You can meet the person in the movies at the shopping mall e.t.c, just be sensitive and find that right person and you will live with the person happily ever after. This is what we see daily in our films and movies we read it also in romance novels which are presented in almost a real life situation that makes many of us believe that, that is the way of life to a successful marriage, but this is not the way of God.
- FALL IN LOVE
When you find that right person something will snap inside of you, a butterfly will rise up inside you, your chemistry will connect, you will feel crazy and out of control, you will feel a storm rising up inside of you starting from your heart straight into your brain, with great sensation in your blood stream, affecting your nervous system making you misbehave a times. Then you will know you are in love and ready for marriage. Marriage is not movies where you can fall in love with total strangers or even a masquerade but in reality, you don’t fall in love you grow into it. 5 WRONG WAYS TO CHOOSE A LIFE –PARTNER
- MAKE THE PERSON TO FALL IN LOVE FOR YOU
Another worldly wisdom for choosing a life partner is ‘’make the person to fall in love with you’’ yes, the worldly wisdom is as soon as you fall in love with the person, do everything to make him or her to fall in love with you. Buy card, get a flower, go on date, dress your best, put your best foot for forward, smile a little just be your best until you make the person to fall in love with you. 5 WRONG WAYS TO CHOOSE A LIFE –PARTNER
Gospel according to movies and romance novels prescribes all these to get your ‘’flash point’’ to fall in love with you. Send notes, text, mail him or her, go to movies with him, give him sex if he demands it, give her expensive gift, get the money by all possible means. These are all worldly counsel to make your dream man or woman fall in love with you.
- GO AHEAD, HOOK THE PERSON THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY
Hook only the person that can make you happy, the person that can serve you and make you feel great. Hook him, get her; don’t allow him or her to go. Tie down that special person in your life, do everything possible to make him or her yours forever. Fight whosoever wants to him or her from you. Enhance your breast or bums if he complains they are too small, hook on drug if that is what he or she want, dance naked if that will make him or her happy. Send your nude pictures if that is what he demanded. Involve in all manner of sexual perversion if that will fulfill his longing, steal in the office if you cannot meet up with what she demanded. By all means, hook this special person in your life depends on him or her.
- FIX YOUR HOPE AND DREAM ON THIS PERSON FOR YOUR FUTURE FULFILLMENT
Let your life revolve around this person, forsake your old friends, abandon your family, make it a 24/7 relationship, call endlessly, call in the day and don’t fail to wake him up in the night for the free night calls. Don’t put trust in God; let your future plans, vision, dream and fulfillment be only on this person. Be rest assure that tomorrow will be well even if you know nothing about matrimonial life as your beloved will accept you the way you are, even if the way you are is the worst you can be. To you, love is enough for the success of any marriage, the marriage will work at least we are in love.
All these are foundations for a life full of regret in marriage. If you base your marriage on all these you will base your marriage on a shaky foundation and wrong assumptions, divorce courts are full of many guys and ladies who had these same assumption years back and went into marriage based on that, giving themselves plenty things to regret later in life. Unfortunately, young ones in this generation are falling cheaply for this satanic lies just to prepare them for a matrimonial tragedy of the future.
In the next post, I will be giving you right ways for choosing a life partner.