-By Bisi Adewale
You can turn your husband into a lover boy, I mean to say your own lover boy, make his heart melt for you, abandon every other lady and love you irrevocably. All you need to do are these simple things
#1 Call him by a pet name
Stop calling your husband Baba Deji, Baba…. That is crude, remember you went to school.
#2 Allow him to exercise his authority as the head of the family. Stop fighting him, stop Challenging his authority
#3 DO not challenge him when he is hurt. Avoid challenging him to do his worst when you hurt him, apologize humbly and get his heart back.
#4 Be silent when he is angry. Stop joining words with him when he ai angry with you. You can go back to him in his sober moment with an apology and explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.
#5 Be quick to say “I’m sorry dear” whenever you offend him: If you can not say I am sorry your Marriage will be in a sorry state. I am sorry can end every battle, if you say it quickly, genuinely and humbly.
#6 Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings: His siblings and friends will pass your message across to him
#7 Honor his mother: He is still in love with his mother, stop deceiving yourself, just learn to live with this fact, stop fighting his mother, show her genuine love even if she does not deserve it by your estimation, giving bath to your husband is enough a sacrifice she need to prove that you must honor her
#8 Get regular gift and cash for his parents: Insist that he buys gifts for his parents, do the same too, he will end up taking care of your parents too.
#9 Surprise him with his favorite dish: Cook his best dishes regularly. Men love food, win his heart with this
#10 Don’t hand him over to your maid: Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. You are his wife, not the maid, if you are careless about this you may lose him to the maid.
#11 Royal Welcome: Don’t take his return home lightly, welcome him greatly and in a royal way, Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.
#12 Use the smile key: Maybe you don’t know that smiles of women are some of the things that win Men for them, so Smile when you look at him and give him occasional peaks when you are out socially.
#13 Home Praise: Praise him generously before your children often, let him hear when you do this, say it also when he is not there your Children will tell him.
#14 Bath Him: Join him in the shower, bath him, wash him, Wash his back, massage him in the process, do this often and see the joy in your husband.
#15 Love posts: Put a love note in his briefcase, car seat, shirt or suit pocket, you will win another point.
#16 Phone love: call just to know how he is doing. Call and tell him that you miss him and that he is the best husband ever.
#17 Flash love: Dial his number and on hearing “hello” just tell him “I love you” and switch off, do it often.
#18 Early Sex: Wake him up in the morning for a hot sex before he goes out in the morning. Don’t wake him up by tapping him, but do this by giving him a sensuous massage and start a great foreplay he will wake up and say it’s my lucky day.
#19 Lucky Wife: Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband that you are a lucky wife.
#20 Hug of love: Give him a hug for no reason, just to make him feel love.
#21 be flirty: Flirt with him, in public when no one is looking, touch him loving, put your hands on his lap, let it go farther than that just make sure nobody is looking, his mind will never stray to any other lady.
#22Pray for him: Always remember to pray for him, commit his heart to God and make him to love you. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening.
#23 Be romantic and sexy: Never allow motherhood kill the girl in you. Be romantic, show him the reason why he must not look at any other lady. Don’t just be his wife be his mistress,be sexy,be his babe,done ever hate sex love it with your husband, celebrate, do it often and never be passive in the bedroom with your husband, be a seducer, yes seduce your husband, if anybody snatches your husband it’s your fault