NUMBER-ONE NEED OF YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE.
You may find it hard to believe this but that is the truth. Most men would rather be unloved than be disrespected. One major need of men is to be respected, IF YOU RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND, HE WILL FEEL YOU LOVE HIM, IF YOU DISRESPECT HIM, HE WILL FEEL YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM.NUMBER-ONE NEED OF YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE.
You can easily get the attention of any man if you respect him, that is why a lot of secretaries have snatched their bosses from their wives, why? While the wife is disrespectful at home, playing madam; the secretary is respectful thoughtful in the office. Though, she is doing her job; most men will interpret it to be that the secretary is better. NUMBER-ONE NEED OF YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE.
Your husband desire respect from you the same level you desire love from him. So go ahead, give him your respect he will give you his love and attention in return.
Don’t wait till the time your husband will deserve your respect before you respect him; that time may never come, rather respect him so much and he will strive to deserve your respect.
Please note that you are likely going to feel dreadful if your husband never demonstrate love to you. Your husband too will feel sad and dreadful if you fail to respect him, so you need to learn to demonstrate your respect according to Biblical injunction.
“Nevertheless, let everyone of you in particular so love his wife as himself and the wife sees that she RESPECT (Reverence), her husband”. (Ephesians 5:33) NUMBER-ONE NEED OF YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE.
Show your husband respect in the following ways:
— Treat him like a king
— Believe in him
— Speak to him with respect
— Never raise your voice in anger
— Allow him to speak for both of you in public.NUMBER-ONE NEED OF YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE.
— Never correct him in public
— Avoid reporting him to people
— Honor him in your heart
— Avoid bottled anger.NUMBER-ONE NEED OF YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE.
— Don’t be ashamed to use the words “yes sir” for him
— Avoid arguing with him
— Don’t allow pride
— Celebrate his strength
— Cover up his weaknesses.
— Make him feel important
— Never abuse him
— Avoid being critical
— Be appreciative.NUMBER-ONE NEED OF YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on email@example.com, 08068312004, Whatsaap 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter @bisiadewale