-By Bisi Adewale
“If a wife doesn’t know what it takes to satisfy her husband, it is essential that she finds out” – Gary Rosberg.
In this section, I will open your eyes to what men generally want their wives do to them in the bedroom. This shall be narrow down to the specific needs of your husband which you need to know in order to give him the best so as to satisfy all his bedroom desires.
1.EXCITEMENT. Men generally want their wives to be excited about sex. No husband will like to beg, cajole or force his wife to bed. Also men want wives that show enthusiasm about sex. Look forward to it and make it a thrilling experience for both of you. Men hate women that fail to smile or happy as she is been made love with.
2.INVOLVEMENT. Men also want women that are involved in the sexual activities, a woman that is involve in foreplay, intercourse and after glow. Not the kinds of woman that will sleep like a log of wood as her husband makes love to her.
3.AGGRESSIVENESS. Not just being involved, men want wives that are aggressive in bed. Taking them to the ‘next cloud’ as they make love, bringing out new ‘trick’ from her ‘trick book’ giving the best in the best way.
4.VARIETY. Men want wives that give room for variety, not the old time women of Victorian era that only want man on top- “Missionary style”. They appreciate women that allow sex to take place in another venue apart from their bedroom, though in privacy.
5.TOTAL SURRENDER. They also prefer women that willingly surrender themselves to their husbands, no need of cat and mouse battle. No third world war before the iron lady will allow herself to be taken. Willingly surrender yourself to your man, do whatever he says, rolling willingly, opening of laps and tightly holding your man without being told. You will be doing your marriage lots of favour as you make your husband happy.
6.NEAT BED. Neat bed sheet, well-dressed bed and perfume mattress will make love out of a man. Do not joke with this, take good care of your bedroom most especially the bed.
7.STRIP NAKED. Wife that willingly strips herself naked will always make man happy, not the type that is still hiding her nakedness from her husband thereby refusing to strip herself naked.
8.SURPRISE PACKAGE. No man hate surprise package (Can you feel this blank), If I do………………………………..my husband would be shocked. That particular thing that you think will shock him, go ahead and do it. Do not waste time to do it; you will touch his heart if you do.
9.SEDUCTIVE WIVES. Men appreciate wives that seduce them to bed and willingly turn them on. Please note that no man will want his wife to do it for another man.
10.COMMUNICATION EXPERT. They also prefer women who communicate her needs in the bedroom with them willingly and ready to discuss their sex life.
11.MANHOOD WOMAN. Men want women that boost their ego. Women that celebrate their manhood, appreciate their genital, telling them that they are strong in bed, treating them as men in the bedroom.15 Things Your Husband Wants In The Bedroom
12.INVITATION. Men want wives that willingly invite them for love making. You can do this by simply telling him, “Oh boy come, let me give you a treat of our honey moon days”, “big boss; come and have a taste of your apple” or by starting the foreplay without saying anything but touching his genital, buttocks, etc. You can also send text to him in the office, something like this: “Honey, I crave your body; come home quickly, your lover girl is waiting for you, fresh and hot” your man will really enjoy this.
13.MORE FREQUENT SEX. One thing any man will want more of is sex. Your man will be very glad if you will be ready for more frequent sex. Remember, an average man want sex at least twice a week. That is how frequent men want it.15 Things Your Husband Wants In The Bedroom
14.GOOD DRESS. They also want their wives to dress cute and inviting. No man wants his wife to dress shabbily like an old woman.15 Things Your Husband Wants In The Bedroom
15.FEED BACK. As a man is thrusting, he wants his wife to be giving him a feed back of what he is doing verbally. Men expect their wives to talk and appreciate them as they make love.
Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert. He is the president of college of marital success. He has authored more than 70 books, a renowned international conference speaker and marriage counselor, the host of T.V program called family booster, and the set man of Family Booster MinistryInt’l.15 Things Your Husband Wants In The Bedroom