How to Keep Your Marriage

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How to Keep Your Marriage

How to Keep Your Marriage

– Bisi Adewale

Keeping your marriage is hard work, is not cheap talk or what you can take for granted your marriage is all you have so you must do all it takes to preserve it, but at the end you will be glad you did. How then do you keep your marriage –

(1) Write a love letter to your spouse: before people get married, they use to write love letters, e-mail etc to their spouse, but immediately after the honey moon they stop all that, no more letters, notes etc. Learn to write love notes, letters to your spouse, tell him/her you care, tell him/her you are still in love, tell him/her how much you love him, you can post the letter to her in the office or drop it on the bed for him, you can paste it on the kitchen door for her or drop it on the driver seat in his car, communicate your thought to your partner always, it is good for your home.

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(2) Learn to cook a good food: As a wife you should learn how to cook a good food, because the road into the heart of a man is through the kitchen door, if you cannot cook a good food, you are not a good wife. Treat your man like a king the dining table, hold him captive by the sweet aroma from the kitchen NEVER allow your man to go to restaurant for food, if you do, you will lose him to other women.

(3) Say “I love you”: When last did you say this word? “several years ago”? “During our courtship days”? “During our honeymoon”? Your partner will like to be hearing this “music” every day, if you love him/her then say it, say it gently to her/him. I love you is a music your spouse likes to hear say it to him/her often.

(4) Help your wife in the kitchen: Do you really love your wife? If you do, then show it by helping her in the kitchen, is not just in word, it is a kind action, if your heart truly love her, let your hands help her in the kitchen, support your wife, remember she is a weaker vessel.

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(5) Be faithful: Resist every attempt to be unfaithful to your spouse, Remember that adultery is a sin before God, Remember that aids, gonorrhea, syphilis and other STD are still in town, condom is not the issues, good conduct is, fidelity is, run away from anything that will lead you into sexual relationship with any other person apart from your spouse.

(6) Be submissive: As a wife, God command you to be submissive to your husband, if you want to enjoy your home, please be submissive, learn to speak with wisdom, humility, meekness and godly conduct is what is expected of you, you can’t be submissive and be abusive, if you are submissive you will be teachable; nagging, stubbornness, strife, anger, malice, vengeance, resentment, bitterness, etc are all signs of pride and arrogance. If you want man to enjoy your home then please submit, let your man lead, correct, direct, instruct and reproof you.

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How to Keep Your Marriage

Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, He is an international conference speaker and an author of more than 52 books on marriage and family life, singles, love, sex and purity and intimacy. He is the host of family T.V. program called Family Booster Moments. Get daily lesson and teaching and articles from his blog: bisiadewale.com and You can also get his resources and also send an mail to familybooster@yahoo.com. for any counselling issue. Visit http://www.bisiadewale.com for daily updating! and click “LIKE” to be my fan on Face book http://www.facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale

How to Keep Your Marriage