Will I Ever Get Married?
By: Bode Akinola
I don’t even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is,hopefully i get lucky for the ‘problem’ to be ‘diagnosed’. Im a 27yrs old lady,finished university very very early and i have been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying i am too choosy or not serious. Will I Ever Get Married? Will I Ever Get Married? Will I Ever Get Married? Will I Ever Get Married?Honestly,I AM NOT choosy.When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon,i even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future partner (i know you can meet your partner anywhere,but na just to shut up people wey don tink say i no dey serious),a close friend even suggested i pend my ‘work-from-home business’,look for job so i can be leaving the house,and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection(honestly i’have always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). Will I Ever Get Married? Will I Ever Get Married?
I just don’t know how to explain it,the ones i like doesn’t like me and the ones i don’t have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I am not desperate or something,i just want to reach out if i am the only one having dis problem. There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him,i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can at least like him(even if its 20%) because his just too PERFECT,but it didn’t just happen. My type of man doesn’t need to be extremely rich,tall,handsome like most ladies dream man.He should just be neat,God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys).Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there,has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married women please i am waiting to hear from you.
And for most people that will think i am looking for a rich guy,believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs,but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head.So my problem is not even money.I am so sick and tired