WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL IN MAKING THE FIRST MOVE?-Everything in life has the way they are meant to function, moral justification is another great thing to consider in all occasions and more to these is to view issues from biblical standpoint.WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL IN MAKING THE FIRST MOVE?
Unlike some other Africa beliefs that are cruel & do not have any biblical basis, the issue of a lady going out of her way to woo a guy is as real in the Africa context as it is in the bible. The bible in the book of Genesis 2:18-25 shows us the need for a woman after the creation of the man because the man was created first then out of the man God created the woman.
It was the need for an helper that brought what we call woman today; now a lesson to all ladies, before you just start a relationship with any man either holy ghost filled or tongue-blasting be sure he has got something he’s living his life for. Be sure there is a plan for his future and he’s taking you somewhere so you don’t both get missing on the road to no where. WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL IN MAKING THE FIRST MOVE?
To you brother, please fall into a deep sleep to see well for God to remove the correct rib; don’t use your head knowledge. Sleeping deeply here is engaging the power of the holy spirit in you to lead & direct you in your choice. The implication of this to a lady is that she shouldn’t double task, a lady should leave the seeing to the man because your task as an helper is enormous.WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL IN MAKING THE FIRST MOVE?
Even if you have seen as a lady and you think the guy is taking too much time, you can inform your Pastor or better still be patient for God to lead him to you.
From Proverbs 18:22, its whoever that finds a wife not whoever that finds a man or husband.WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL IN MAKING THE FIRST MOVE?
I want to submit here that it wasn’t so from the beginning & no technological advancement or modernization can cloud your face to change the procedure from the normal
Ladies, don’t sell yourself cheap, don’t present yourself like an hungry dog in search of a prey. Anything goes is not for a kingdom daughter so allow God to lead the right man to you.
When you go ahead to propose to a man,it is as good as selling yourself and it could portray you as a desperate person. WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL IN MAKING THE FIRST MOVE?
Bisi Oludare has a passion and ministry in the area of family life. She is a graduate of the First Premier Marriage Institute – The College of Marital Success where she obtained a Postgraduate Certificate as a qualified Chartered Counselor. She is a graduate of the School of Disciples and also attended the Word of Faith Bible Institute. She is a graduate of Biochemistry from LAUTECH and also holds a Masters Degree in Pharmacology from UNILAG but called to build homes through the power in the word of God.