Wife love children more than husband. What the husband did will shock you

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Wife loves children more than husband. What the husband did will shock you
Wife loves children more than husband. What the husband did will shock you

Wife love children more than husband. What the husband did will shock you

Wife love children more than husband. What the husband did will shock you

Ojo Oluwasegun .A
What started as just another evening ended in a very terrible way recently ;my marriage and family have not recover from it.
My husband and I attended our Children’s end of the session party and prize giving day ,where my three Children shone like a million star. They all came top in their classes, our family names was reverberating throughout the program as they called the best student in each subject.
The School head will make a call saying, “and the best student in English Language is……..’’  and everybody will respond Adedimeji!! This happened like that in all the classes and in all the courses offered by my Children in their classes, I was on top of the world.
My husband was not in the program because of his engagement in the office, I was excited to tell him what transpired during the program as we spoke till late in the night.
The following day, I was still talking about it,telling my husband how much I love my Children. I kept on repeating it,I hugged them whenever I see them and show them affection.
As I got busy doing this,I didn’t noticed that my husband was not really sharing my excitement.
I also was really blinded to it for quite a while, until one day I was speaking to my husband about how much I love our kids. I was telling him that the love I feel for our kids is so strong that words can’t even express it.
My expectation was that he would echo the feelings and say he felt the same way but alas! his response was far from it.
‘What about me?’ he asked, ‘Do you love me that way as well?’
Truth must be told, I was taken aback. I hadn’t really considered it in that light and I stammered what could be passed off as a satisfactory answer.
He wasn’t satisfied, he got angry with me, he was really jealous and livid with me. That was the beginning of my  trouble, my husband change totally towards me and the Children, the house is now very hot for all of us. I am really confused. Can somebody please advise me of what to do ?  What started as just another evening ended in a very terrible way recently ;my marriage and family have not recover from it.

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4 COMMENTS

  1. Is divorce an option. Your children come first and foremost. Even over yourself in some situations. Think of them and the damage it will cause them later.

  2. So you couldn’t give him a satisfactory answer that you were proud of him and loved him…Let me ask you a couple of questions. If you could get him something he really wants tomorrow, do you know what to get him? When is the last time you went on a date with him and only him or made time to do something hes interested in? Do you stand with him on decisions on the kids or do you try to find a way to please the kids when he says no? Do you assign him tasks with the kids without consulting him first? Does he feel stressed trying to support the family and feel he’s missing out/you are getting way more time with the kids? When is the last time you told him he was amazing, that you were proud of him and his accomplishments?
    It sounds like he’s reaching out crying for your approval. Let me ask you if you divorced him tomorrow, would you be able to date someone while still attending to your kids in the same way?

  3. Who do you first knew,your children or your husband?
    The day of your wedding, is it your children or your husband you said ‘I DO’ to?
    Think about it! And apologize to him and draw him closer to yourself, pay more attention to him than your children and started saying all the time’I LOVE YOU’,you can also write it on the paper and paste it on anywhere he can see it, in the bathroom, on the dinning etc in a funny way.
    The love of God will surely come back to your home and the Lord will give you the wisdom you need to be a good wife in Jesus name…

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