7 WAYS TO MELT THE HEART OF YOUR HUSBAND
By Bisi Adewale
7 WAYS TO MELT THE HEART OF YOUR HUSBAND-Most wives believe that men are tough; their heart is hard and impenetrable. Despite this, there are 7 things every wife can do to melt the heart of her husband. They are:
- PUBLIC RESPECT: Men, regardless of their race, colour, height or class in the society wants to be respected by their wives even if she is the one feeding them. Topmost among the respect they crave is public affirmation of their authority. They want to be addressed with respect in the presence of their friends, colleagues and onlookers, marking the fact that they are in control in their homes. Stop calling him by his first name; call him: My Lord, M.D, Sweet Heart, and My Love, in the public and at home. Respect his orders, instructions, and opinions and respect his uniqueness. Talk to him with respect and let him know that you do. Any woman that disrespects her husband outside shall have a difficult man to live with.7 WAYS TO MELT THE HEART OF YOUR HUSBAND
- TAKE TO HIS CORRECTIONS: No matter your height or achievement in life, you must be humble enough to obey your husband. Honour him; let him control you. Take to his corrections and don’t be stubborn. Don’t disregard his authority; be teachable and he will greatly love you.
- LOVE HIS MOTHER: Majority of wives often make the mistake of marrying their husbands only and declaring hot hatred and war on his mother. This is a grave error. You cannot hate his mother and expect him to love you. Men love their mother so much because that is the first woman in their lives. Accept his mother, demonstrate love to her by buying her gifts and encourage him to visit. Don’t just love his mother alone; love his father and his entire family too.
- BE FASHIONABLE: No man can resist an attractive woman, with good dress sense. Be neat, put on clean, current and fitted attire with a very good colour combination. Stop dressing like an old school woman who is colour blind. Dress like a babe, not like a woman.7 WAYS TO MELT THE HEART OF YOUR HUSBAND
- COOK HIS FOOD: Whosoever controls the mouth of a man controls his heart. This is so; the road to the heart of a man is through the kitchen door. Don’t be too busy to cook for your husband. Create the time to cook his meal the way he wants it. Stop delegating preparation of his meal to housemaids or your siblings. Cook delicious and timely meal food for him.
- SERVE HIS FOOD: Don’t just cook his food, serve it specially. Don’t assign it to someone else; serve his food in special plates and treat him like a VIP. Treat him like a special guest on the dining table.
- BUY GIFTS FOR HIM: Contrary to general belief that only men should buy gifts for women, in marriage, men normally appreciate gifts from their wives. Don’t just wait for him to buy gifts for you, buy for him too. Strange women often trade with this secret, even though they will get triple of the amount spent. Wives, wise up! 7 WAYS TO MELT THE HEART OF YOUR HUSBAND