37 Common Bedroom Mistakes Husbands Make In Marriage part1

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37 Common Bedroom Mistakes Husbands Make In Marriage part1

By: Bisi Adewale

37 Common Bedroom Mistakes Husbands Make In Marriage part1

Most husbands wonder why their wives decline their sexual advancements, and when they (wives) accept, they never give their best. Most times, husbands blame their wives for not being caring, considerate and responsive. But the truth is, there are many mistakes husbands make that turn their wives off. If you understand these mistakes and avoid them, without a doubt you will have a lover girl as a wife. 37 Common Bedroom Mistakes Husbands Make In Marriage part1 37 Common Bedroom Mistakes Husbands Make In Marriage part1

  1. Want sex but not a relationship. Most husbands go for sex without relating with their wives. Every woman needs affection, attention, care and tenderness, but most husbands don’t understand this. If you don’t touch her mind, you can’t open her pants.
  2. Want sex but not romance. Women want romance, men want sex. You will be wise to give her romance in exchange for your sizzling sex.
  3. Not Shaving. Women love a clean shaved man. If you are bushy, that may turn her off.
  4. Massaging too roughly. In an attempt to give her a sensual, relaxing, massage to get her in the mood, you do it roughly. Take note of this.
  5. You hate to massage her. You don’t even know that every woman loves to be massaged; hence, you are not making her happy in this aspect.
  6. Sex without foreplay. Foreplay is what she wants; therefore, it will be wrong to think you can have your way without meeting her own needs.
  7. Dirty and Untidy. Your mouth smells, your armpit is stinking, you’ve not had a bath in days, all these things put her off.
  8. Not caring whether she enjoys it. You are only concerned about yourself; nothing else matters to you. 37 Common Bedroom Mistakes Husbands Make In Marriage part1
  9. Barking Instruction. You are like a village headmaster or a coach with a megaphone. This is a big turn off. 37 Common Bedroom Mistakes Husbands Make In Marriage part1
  10. Want her to behave like a porn star. She is your wife, a decent woman, not that dirty porn star; she can’t behave like one. By the way, why are you watching porn films? It is totally wrong as a Christian to indulge yourself in pornography. 37 Common Bedroom Mistakes Husbands Make In Marriage part1
  11. You seek for sex too frequently. An average man is known to demand for sex 1 or 2 times a week, while an average woman wants it 2-3 times a month. There is need for balance so that the woman is not turned into a sex machine. If you are addicted to sex, please seek help. Too much of everything is bad.37 Common Bedroom Mistakes Husbands Make In Marriage part1
  12. Rough handling her nipples. Nipples are very sensitive. No woman can stand it when it is twisted as if it is a knob for locating radio stations, let alone chewed. Focus on the whole breast not just nipples; handle it with care and tenderness.
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to be continue…………. Tomorrow for Part 2