3 IMPORTANT VIRTUES OF A MOTHER

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100 THINGS ABOUT PREGNANCY FOR FIRST-TIME MOM. Pt. 2
100 THINGS ABOUT PREGNANCY FOR FIRST-TIME MOM. Pt. 2

3 IMPORTANT VIRTUES OF A MOTHER

By Bisi Oludare

100 THINGS ABOUT PREGNANCY FOR FIRST-TIME MOM. Pt. 2

Mother watching little son playing learning game in his room
Mother watching little son playing learning game in his room

There is this misconception about motherhood which most people believe is the only way for all women but in reality not all women can be considered as a mother. There is more to being a mother than just carrying a baby for 9 months and entering the delivery room to give birth to the baby.3 IMPORTANT VIRTUES OF A MOTHER

There was a  course i did while in school and we had a topic then, “WHEN IS A MOTHER A MOTHER”?

We saw it then as funny because the general believe is every woman is a mother- be it already one or a potential mother but in the reality, not every woman is a mother. Before you argue and have me crucified, just follow patiently.3 IMPORTANT VIRTUES OF A MOTHER
To be a mother, there are things that must be in place, biologically as God made it to be; all women have a womb to carry foetus but not all women can mother a child. Motherhood is about responsibility and that is why today, you see women throwing a-day old baby away into the trash.
A MOTHER according to the dictionary is a woman in relation to a child or children to whom she has given birth. A Mother is one that brings up (a child) with care and affection.3 IMPORTANT VIRTUES OF A MOTHER
Motherhood is the state or experience of having and raising a child. Giving birth to and raising a child is an example of motherhood.

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Motherhood is a noun as well as a verb which makes it an action word. The action in it makes MOTHERHOOD.

The ABC involved in Motherhood are;
A- AFFECTIONATE: a true mother doesn’t just give birth but she is so loving, devoted, committed, tender, and optimistic and she never gives up on her children. She is always available and expresses fondness towards her children.
B- BLESSED: she sees her children as a great blessing from the Lord and she is always proud of them. She never sees them as worst mistake of her life.3 IMPORTANT VIRTUES OF A MOTHER
C- Cherish: she loves these gifts God has blessed her, she holds them dear to her heart, cares and protect them lovingly

Are you like Moses’ mother, who against all odds stayed to cater and care for her son even when the situations and conditions around her were most unfavourable? Exodus 2:1-10

Now, you can search yourself to see if you are truly a MOTHER or a MURDERER. By their fruits they shall be known.3 IMPORTANT VIRTUES OF A MOTHER

Bisi Oludare has a passion and ministry in the area of family life. She is a graduate of the First Premier Marriage Institute – The College of Marital Success where she obtained a Postgraduate Certificate as a qualified Chartered Counselor. She is a graduate of the School of Disciples and also attended the Word of Faith Bible Institute. She is a graduate of Biochemistry from LAUTECH and also holds a Masters Degree in Pharmacology from UNILAG but called to build homes through the power in the word of God.

E-mail: abbeylily@yahoo.com

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