10 SURE WAYS TO BE THE MOST WANTED LADY

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10 SURE WAYS TO BE THE MOST WANTED LADY

10 SURE WAYS TO BE THE MOST WANTED LADY

By Bisi Oludare

10 SURE WAYS TO BE THE MOST WANTED LADY
10 SURE WAYS TO BE THE MOST WANTED LADY

In our world today, some ladies complain about the fact that they are getting old and still there is no man coming to propose marriage to them. My dear, if you don’t do the right thing and you are not right in your ways, no man will want to have anything to do with you. Let me quickly ask you this question lady, looking deeply at your kind of person, can you marry you or can you fully agree to your brother marrying someone of your kind?

Marriage is not a child’s play, it is for better or worse and there is no room for divorce, so if guys are not seeing anything in you that shows you are good for them, the proposal will never come.

Under listed are some of the thing you can do to be the most wanted lady;

  1. LOVE PEOPLE: you are not better than anybody so whenever you have the opportunity to be in the gathering of people, show genuine love
  2. BE APPROACHABLE: you cannot be proving hard to get at this stage, frowning always as if the world is crumbling on you and expect any man to find it welcoming. No matter what the case may be, show yourself approachable. This is not saying anything goes or you should lower your standard but that you should come down from that high horse and lower your shoulder pad for guys to find you amazing. Always smile
  3. LOVE YOURSELF: self-love is very important at this your stage. If guys can perceive that you don’t have any iota of love for your, how can they see you as lovable?
  4. LOOK SMART: it is not a matter of breaking the bank to look smoking hot but putting the right attire together. Know how to combine colours in the right way. Don’t just wear anything you feel like wearing; be intentional about your dressing. Your outlook speaks a lot about you.
  5. GO OUT MORE: don’t just allow your life to revolve around a triangle – from the house to the wok and then church. Go out more and when you do, don’t keep to yourself, socialize. Attend singles Seminar where you can be found.
  6. DO NOT BE RIGID: rigidity won’t get any close to you. Be open to suggestions and let other people’s opinion count. If need be, shift your ground to accommodate other people’s suggestion. You can never know it all.
  7. SHOW GRATITUDE AND DROP YOUR EGO: for anything people do for you, be grateful as nothing is solely your right. Your ego is a bad business any day anytime, drop it or who cares about your qualifications or that wealthy background you came from. If that is the case, then you should be married by now!
  8. BE PRAYERFUL: prayer changes things and it works wonders. Don’t neglect the place of prayers as you do other things
  9. DEVELOP YOUR CHARACTER: this is very important as God will not give His profitable son to a lady with a bad character. Just like that saying, bad character is like a deflated tyre, until it is changed; it cannot take you anywhere. Build your character, be humble – pride is a destroyer, bad mouth that runs like a tap water will not bring any guy close to you. Good character is a sure way to becoming a sought after lady. Be humble, kind, generous, polite, forgiving, patient and always pray the fruit of the spirit into your life. Remember, your character is your marriage. Work on your character first before you start troubling God thinking He has forgotten you, bad character is an enemy of marriage
  10. ALLOW GOD: above all, make the centre of your life. Seek to please Him and He will locate you with the right man.
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Do these and in no time your invitation card will be out. Look inward to see where you need to make those little changes and do, don’t blame people or God. You could actually be your own problem.

 

Bisi Oludare has a passion and ministry in the area of family life. She is a graduate of the First Premier Marriage Institute – The College of Marital Success where she obtained a Postgraduate Certificate as a qualified Chartered Counselor. She is a graduate of the School of Disciples and also attended the Word of Faith Bible Institute. She is a graduate of Biochemistry from LAUTECH and also holds a Masters Degree in Pharmacology from UNILAG but called to build homes through the power in the word of God.

E-mail: abbeylily@yahoo.com

Twitter: @bisioludare

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10 SURE WAYS TO BE THE MOST WANTED LADY

10 SURE WAYS TO BE THE MOST WANTED LADY