14Things That Can Cause Your Wife To Say No part1

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14Things That Can Cause Your Wife To Say No part1

By: Bisi Adewale

14Things That Can Cause Your Wife To Say No part1

Many husbands get annoyed when their wives refuse them sex. Some behave irrational while many misbehave. As a gentle man and an irresistible husband, there are ways you should conduct yourself. I quite agree that most women don’t know the right way to say “NO” to their husbands’ advances without hurting him. Let us look at 14 things that can cause her to say No. 14Things That Can Cause Your Wife To Say No part1

  1. Tiredness. She has worked all day for more than eight hours, got back home to cook, take care of you and the children, while all you do is to rest and watch television after the day’s work. To be sincere with you, your wife’s daily schedule can be tiring, which is why you need to be understanding and even support her at home.
  2. Your sexual mistakes. If you make the common mistakes characteristic of men in the bedroom, she may say “no” to your advances. 14Things That Can Cause Your Wife To Say No part1 14Things That Can Cause Your Wife To Say No part1
  3. If she is sick, the last thing on her mind will be sex. Please understand and bear with her when this happens. 14Things That Can Cause Your Wife To Say No part1
  4. Sickness of the Children. When any of your children is not alright, your wife will be emotionally down. This is a typical bedroom conversation that occurs at this time:
  5. Pregnancy should not stop sex in marriage, although many women lose interest in sex during pregnancy, while others erroneously believe that sex should not take place in pregnancy. Educate her, buy our books on sexual fulfillment in marriage and the secrets of an irresistible wife for her. Please note that if there are specific instructions from her doctor asking her to abstain from sex during pregnancy, please abide by that.
  6. Fasting and Prayer. Don’t attempt to have sex with her during fasting and prayer; it is unscriptural. “Defraud ye not one another, except it be with consent for a time that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer” (1 Corinthians 7:5). Except she is undergoing a “marathon fast”, you can still make love whenever she breaks her fast between the end of fast to 11:59pm if the fast will continue). If she is to fast for only a short duration (2 or 3 days), 14Things That Can Cause Your Wife To Say No part1

I advise that you allow her to have her fast and abstain from sex. If you must have sex during that period, she must have prayed and ended her fast with food.

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  1. Delivery of Baby. It takes weeks after delivery of a baby for a woman to be ready to have sex. Make sure the birth canal is healed before any intercourse. Give her time to regain her strength; bearing in mind she lost so much blood during delivery.

 You need to understand that when your wife denies you sex, she is not doing it to punish you. Unlike what most men think, that following might be the causes: