7 WAYS TO BE SURE OF YOUR PARTNER’S COMMITMENT

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NUMBER-ONE NEED OF YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE
NUMBER-ONE NEED OF YOUR HUSBAND IN MARRIAGE

7 WAYS TO BE SURE OF YOUR PARTNER’S COMMITMENT

7 WAYS TO BE SURE OF YOUR PARTNER’S COMMITMENT

By Bisi Oludare

7 WAYS TO BE SURE OF YOUR PARTNER’S COMMITMENT
7 WAYS TO BE SURE OF YOUR PARTNER’S COMMITMENT

In recent time, a lot of people are getting confused about the things that happen in their relationship and they tend to find fault in the other person. A relationship is about two people and the truth is no one can really successfully deceive you if you are not deceiving yourself. Commitment is one of the heartbeats of a relationship, if there is no commitment, then there is no relationship. How then can you know if a person is committed to you or not?

Here are seven sure ways to know;

  1. GENUINE LOVE FOR GOD: a person that has a heart for God will surely have a heart for you because that is an evidence that he/she puts God first. So, he/she has set priority right and will always seek to please God by staying committed to you as a sign of his/her commitment to God.
  2. GENUINE LOVE FOR YOU: anyone that truly loves God will never get it wrong in loving you because his/her first allegiance is to God.
  3. HEART OF SACRIFICE: this is very important in any relationship, the person must be ready to make sacrifices for you at any time. You will be the next after God. He/she will always seek your good whether convenient or not. He/she will be ready to sacrifice time, energy, money, interest and best for you
  4. TRUST: this is another very important quality anyone that claims to love you must show. Whether you are together or not, he/she must trust you and be ready to defend you come what may. Without trust, no relationship will stand.
  5. INTEREST IN YOUR VISION AND CAREER: there must be real interest and care about your vision and career. What drives you must drive him/her so that there won’t be a clash of interest. There must be full understanding of your purpose so that you both can know how to be each other’s number one fan
  6. TRUE LOVE FOR YOUR FAMILY: anyone that says he/she is committed to you, must as well be committed to loving your family deeply. Be sure that he/she respects your people.
  7. PRAYER: Above all, ask God who knows the intent of the heart of man to show you his/her true picture.
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These are the ways to be sure of your partner’s commitment before you go too far and get jilted which could be painful.

Bisi Oludare has a passion and ministry in the area of family life. She is a graduate of the First Premier Marriage Institute – The College of Marital Success where she obtained a Postgraduate Certificate as a qualified Chartered Counselor. She is a graduate of the School of Disciples and also attended the Word of Faith Bible Institute. She is a graduate of Biochemistry from LAUTECH and also holds a Masters Degree in Pharmacology from UNILAG but called to build homes through the power in the word of God.

E-mail: abbeylily@yahoo.com

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