10 Characters That Builds An Excellent Marriage part1

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How Kind Thinking Will Help Your Marriage
How Kind Thinking Will Help Your Marriage

10 Characters That Builds An Excellent Marriage part1

By: Bisi Adewale

Character is marriage, marriage is character. The success or failure of marriage is a function of character. Most times bad character destroys marriage more than any other things in life.
10 Characters That Builds An Excellent Marriage part1
1. Understanding. 10 Characters That Builds An Excellent Marriage part1
Understanding is an inevitable tool for every woman that wants to live with her husband throughout a life-time in marriage. Living with a man requires high level of understanding of the make gender and understanding is a deliberate character that needed to be built by a woman who want to succeed in marriage. Don’t just act like every other woman, take time to understand why men act the way they do, understand marriage, love, sex, in-laws, crisis management, parenting and financial management.
10 Characters That Builds An Excellent Marriage part1
2. Perseverance. 10 Characters That Builds An Excellent Marriage part1
Perseverance means continued steady effort to achieve an aim in spite of difficulty. This is a character which every woman should develop in order to make their marriage work. At times, the husband may be heady, difficult, beats, maltreat you, your in-laws may pose as a threat to you in that marriage, there may be delay in childbirth, and all these challenges should not force you to quit your marriage. Rather, persevere. Don’t surrender your marriage to pressure, you will soon overcome.
10 Characters That Builds An Excellent Marriage part1
3. Teachability. 10 Characters That Builds An Excellent Marriage part1
No matter your age, academics qualification or exposure life, you must be humble enough to be taught by your husband. Even if you think you know more than him, listen to him, allow yourself to be corrected and don’t be stubborn. Men generally love women with teachable spirit. Diligently work on yourself to develop teachable character in life.
10 Characters That Builds An Excellent Marriage part1
4. Good Communication.
It is the mouth that signifies the commencement of a marital relationship because it is when the mouth pronounce the statement “yes I do” during wedding that you are proclaimed husband and wife. That same mouth can destroy the marriage if not well managed. Be a communication expert. Speak positively, speak with humility. Avoid vulgar words like you’re a fool, you are stupid, foolish man, I will divorce you, etc. Make use of statements like “I am sorry, I am proud of you, please, thank you” etc.

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5. Friendliness.
“A man that hath friends must show himself friendly”. Proverbs 18:24a. Successful marriage is a friendship taken so deep. Consciously make yourself likeable and lovable. Don’t be too ‘serious’ have a friendly look. A good welcoming look, welcoming smiles and character will get your husband attracted to you. No man will want to be with a frowning, stubborn and contentious wife. Be friendly in your speech, actions and reactions. Strange women normally demonstrate high level on friendliness to win other people’s husband. As a woman, demonstrate friendliness to retain your husband.