MARRIAGE OF HONOURABLES – Part 2

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MARRIAGE OF HONOURABLES – Part 2

MARRIAGE OF HONOURABLES – Part 2

Bisi Adewale

 

Number one thing a man wants in marriage is not sex but respect. No ideal man will tolerate an abusive and insubordinate wife. Wives that understand this will indirectly be in control of their marriage.  Listed here are ways you can honour your husband.

 

  1. Never bark order to your husband; never speak to him like your child, and never speak to him like his boss.
  2. Believe in him and his leadership; tell him you do.
  3. Hail him, praise him and appreciate him.
  4. Avoid being critical and controlling
  5. Respect him in a V-I-P way. Treat and respect your husband as a very important person by respecting him in the following ways

V-   Verbally

  • Intellectually

P–    Physically.

VERBALLY

Let grace always come out from your mouth. Avoid the following whenever you discover a fault: nagging, complaints, lying, abusive words, cutting remarks, voice rising, shouting, and putting down, critical words, among others. Instead; commend, compliment and motivate him; never speak when angry. If you must pick your words, speak slowly; pass your message across, in the most respectful way.

INTELLECTUALLY

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Men feel they know, never tell your man, he doesn’t. The day my wife look at me and said, “You are my teacher, my mentor”, I felt like giving myself to her.

Don’t say “I think you are wrong about…..”say “are we right about” or “I am confused about”. Always ask for his help in every matter. Listen attentively to him when he talks. Don’t worry, if he sounds like your old school teacher, just let him express himself; men love it, your husband do.

     PHYSICALLY

Satisfy his longing for sex. One thing that can make a man to say, “My wife is wicked” is when she denies him sex continually. Most men want sex two or three times a week. Your husband is not different. Meet the physical need of your husband and you will be glad you did.

Make the house to look like what he wants- neat and approachable.

  1. Pray for yourself, asking for the spirit of meekness, gentleness, humility and goodness. Tell God to give you grace to submit to your husband and respect him wholeheartedly as long as you live. Pray to God to inspire submission in you
  2. Pray to God to turn your husband’s life around, making him the man you want him to be in every way; so that it will be much easier to respect him.
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MARRIAGE OF HONOURABLES – Part 2
MARRIAGE OF HONOURABLES – Part 2

 

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, Whatsaap 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.com, facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter @bisiadewale