ATTITUDES OF A LOVING COUPLE

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ATTITUDES OF A LOVING COUPLE

ATTITUDES OF A LOVING COUPLE

-Bisi Adewale

Marriage can be romantic, enjoyable and fulfilling if we can introduce some habits into our daily life. These habits are capable of turning a divided home into a loving home. If only we can give them major roles to play in our lives and homes. These habits includes;

1. Major priority: This involves making your spouse the number one in your heart. Most people don’t have the thought of their spouses in their mind. Lack of attention is very dangerous to the success of any marriage. Cherish the opportunity you have to be with your spouse. The time you made available to be with your spouse will show how much you value him or her.

2. Lovely speech: Let love control your mouth; highly successful couples have known how to correct their spouse in a loving way without hurting them. Don’t just talk, learn to talk with love. no matter how angry you are, never speak to pull down your spouse. Use your tongue to build your home and not destroy it.

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3. Develop intimacy: Make it your habit never to report your spouse to a third party, learn how to talk about your differences and settle it. Avoid reporting your spouse to your friends, families or parents, it is a sign of immaturity. If you need help get it from a professional counselor. Develop intimacy and make sure your friends and family members should not intrude into your family affairs.

4. Honor: Cultivate the habit of honoring your spouse, say it, show it and demonstrate it. Never disgrace your spouse, never make the great mistake of removing the veil of honor and respect from your marriage.

5. Time: Learn how to escape from the children, job and friends to spend time with your spouse. At this period talk intimately, touch passionately. It is not a period for sex. It is meant to develop and sustain companionship and if sex happens, go ahead, no crime committed.

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6. Preplanned sex: Use the power of preplanned sex to renew the beauty of your marriage. Discuss having sex with your spouse before leaving home in the morning; call to remind each other through the day, joke about it, tease each other about it. It will amaze you what that will do to your sex life.

Don’t pack up that marriage yet, divorce is not an option. Your marriage will get better day by day, if you can take time to build these habits in your relationship.

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
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