HOW TO OVERCOME IMPATIENCE IN MARRIAGE Part-2

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Two Major Problems of Marriage
Two Major Problems of Marriage

HOW TO OVERCOME IMPATIENCE IN MARRIAGE Part-2

-Bisi Adewale

HOW TO OVERCOME IMPATIENCE IN MARRIAGE Part-2

HOW TO OVERCOME IMPATIENCE IN MARRIAGE Part-2To be patient means to have the ability to wait calmly and accept delays without becoming angry or anxious.

It also means to have the ability to accept trouble and other people’s annoying behavior without complaining or becoming angry.

In marriage, we definitely have reasons to be angry with our spouses and this can make emotions to run high but with patience, we can work things out.

How to Become Patient:

  • Know that you need it. See patience as a major need in your life.
  • Ask for it. Pray to God to give you the spirit of patience.
  • Study about it. Read books about patience.
  • Ask for help. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you to become patient.
  • Preach to yourself. When you are in the situation of taking a rash decision, preach to yourself. Tell yourself several times, “Boy/girl, be patient”. Mention your name, say it out, “Dave, be patient, take it easy with your wife.”
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 How to Know If You Are Not Patient:

Check the following to know if you need to be more patient. You need to be patient if:

  • You easily get angry
  • You say things you later regret when angry.
  • You are fond of screaming at your wife, husband or children.
  • You are fond of vengeance.
  • You lose friends easily
  • You have many people you keep malice with.
  • You easily become anxious and worrisome.
  • You do things you often regret when you are angry.
  • You and your spouse are currently at logger heads.
  • You are fond of banging the door, slamming the chairs in anger.
  • You are not pleasant to stay with.

 

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.comWebsite:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale