GREAT STEPS TO A POSITIVE MARRIAGE
GREAT STEPS TO A POSITIVE MARRIAGE
GREAT STEPS TO A POSITIVE MARRIAGE-A positive marriage is a marriage that brings peace, joy and progress. It is a marriage where both parties are enjoying themselves, it is a relationship where the man is been treated as the King and the wife as the queen. A positive marriage glorifies God, establish righteousness, and bring forth Godly children.
If you desire a positive marriage then take your time to read this write -up and put them into use.GREAT STEPS TO A POSITIVE MARRIAGE
(1) POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE. If you desire a positive marriage, then have a positive mental attitude, for your attitude determines your altitude in life. Think positively about yourself your spouse, your marriage, your in-law. Never plan or think of divorcing your partner, never see marriage as a yoke but rather as something to be enjoyed. Think of forgiveness, acceptance, adjustment, reconciliation, trust etc, without a positive mind, your marriage can not become what you want it to be.GREAT STEPS TO A POSITIVE MARRIAGE
(2) POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD – If you must enjoy your marriage then you must befriend the author of marriage, you must befriend God, you must reconcile with Him, you must be genuinely born again, you must surrender your totality to Him, because it take a Godly heart to have a blissful home, if God is not in that home, you cannot but be in trouble, let Him lead you, He will not lead you astray.
(3) POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF: This may look funny, but that is the truth, unless you have positive relationship with yourself you cannot have positive relationship with others. You must deal with procrastination, laziness, worry, fear, guilt, moodiness, dirtyness etc. Unless all these are dealt with you will find it too difficult to relate positively with others.
(4) P 0 S IT I V E FOUNDATION – Singles must lay positive foundation, if they want a positive marriage. Foundation of purity, prayer, patience, labour, love, pure courtship, learning, counsel and Glorious wedding. Without these foundation, it will be extremely difficult to have a positive marriage. Ps. 11 :3.
(5) POSITIVE ACTIONS. A good and positive marriage is a product of co-ordinated positive actions taken by both parties involved in the relationship. To make your marriage what you desire it to be, you must be ready to take many positive actions which is based on love and mutual understanding. It involves giving gift to your spouse, doing things together, praying together, fasting and reading of Bible together etc.GREAT STEPS TO A POSITIVE MARRIAGE
(6) P 0 SIT I V E ASSOCIATION – Keeping right and good friends is a way to a positive marriage, friends that will encourage you to love your spouse, that will encourage you not to divorce your wife despite all odds, are good friends. A friend that encourages drunkenness night crawling, pornography, smoking etc are not good friends and they will not be beneficial to your marriage but rather be injurious to it.
(7) P0SITIVE COMMUNICATION: Communication is the soul of any relationship without it no relationship can move forward, but negative relationship is even worse than Zero relationship. If we desire our marriage to be a paradise on earth then we must be ready to speak positively to each other. Negative communication like criticism, Outburst in anger, nagging, murmuring, curses, abusive words, comparison, cutting remarks, derogatory statements should be avoided as much as possible.
Couples should get talking, speak the truth in love, build with your words, do not destroy, let your words be seasoned with salt.G
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on email@example.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
REAT STEPS TO A POSITIVE MARRIAGE