10 Things You Can Experience After Marriage part2

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10 Things You Can Experience After Marriage part2

BY: RIYA ROY

10 Things You Can Experience After Marriage part2
The first year of marriage, like every ‘first’ in life, is extremely special, with its own joys and sorrows wonderfully intertwined. You have to nurture it with love, the way you nurture a plant to help it bloom to its fullest. You have to learn that though you have given each other your hearts, you cannot possess the other.
Love is nothing but the only magic that is innate to us. It is a spell that can be retained, if not strengthened, throughout the years of marriage. So, buddy, it won’t be very easy. It might even be very difficult. But if you work at it every single day, together, hand in hand, it will be completely worth your while. 10 Things You Can Experience After Marriage part2 10 Things You Can Experience After Marriage part2 10 Things You Can Experience After Marriage part2
5.Please, forgive me (I can’t stop loving’ you) say you’re sorry

You have no idea how much apologizing for your mistakes can go in strengthening your bond with your spouse. This is not only true in the case of marriages, but in any relationship that you value and are willing to go any distance to make it work. In addition to saying sorry, you have to learn to forgive and forget; just take a moment and think about whether all this is going to matter in a year from now. If it’s not, it’s not worth fighting about. Your first year of marriage is sure to throw you many such difficult situations where you have to be the first one to say sorry, but it’s more important to not let a stupid incident blow everything up that you both have built! 10 Things You Can Experience After Marriage part2 10 Things You Can Experience After Marriage part2 10 Things You Can Experience After Marriage part2
6. The backup plan

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If someone makes you laugh, it is difficult to stay mad at them for a long time. If you can’t laugh with them, how can you love them? A good sense of humor keeps the freshness in your relationship alive, and helps you sail through the rest of the years very comfortably. Couples who easily laugh at themselves and also at different situations, typically feel stronger as a pair when glitches occur. So work on your sense of humor as a couple.

7. As good as it gets

Many people wrongly assume that marriage is the last level of the dating game. They get so relaxed, or even complacent, because they believe they’ve won the game and there is nothing more to it. They stop putting in effort to look good, to do little things for their better halves, or to even consider that the other might walk out on them if they are not happy in this relationship. But in reality, you have to work harder to make a marriage work as it requires you to be mature and dependable.

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8. Yours, mine, and ours

We are all different individuals with different choices and preferences, ways of dealing with situations, and approaches to life. As such, the experiences that you have in your first year of marriage is sure not to be the same. While it might seem like a cakewalk to some, living in a completely new way might turn out to be a challenging struggle for many. One thing is certain: your first year of marriage is going to be amongst the most valuable experiences of your life. Cherish it!

9. Only fools rush out

This one year is a very confusing period where you are making all the effort to make it work but at the same time are worried if your hard work is in the right direction or completely in vain. In the first year of marriage, you can expect many such occasions when you’d like to dump the whole idea and walk out. If not, you will at least question the choice that you have made. Believe in the institution of marriage, its honor and love.

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10. We’ve only just begun

The first year of marriage is a period of new beginnings. Whatever you do will be a first for the both of you as a couple. So every moment will be a celebration; even the most mundane of events will be very special, something you will cherish later and remind each other of! Don’t miss the charm in the crazy, little, and stupid moments that will never come back again. First times come but once in life!

The first year is when you establish strong foundations for your relationship, so make the best use of it to understand, accept, celebrate, and love each other like never before. Marriage seems tougher than dating because the responsibilities scare you, but nothing beautiful or powerful can happen unless the two of you are unconditionally devoted to each other. As Audrey Hepburn once wittily said, if you are married, you should be very married!