EASY WAYS TO SETTLE A DISPUTE

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EASY WAYS TO SETTLE A DISPUTE

EASY WAYS TO SETTLE A DISPUTE

By Bisi adewale

Caucasian couple arguing on sofa
Caucasian couple arguing on sofa
  1. See your own part of it: –Never lay the blame on your spouse or exonerate yourself. It takes two to tango.
  2. Take responsibility for the state of your home.
  3. Listen to your Partner:  Let your partner talk freely, let him or her talk without intimidation, just listen.
  4. Respond positively:  No defense, no threat and no game-playing. Respond in love.
  5. Look for a win-win situation: Never turn it to a contest; you are not in an Olympic Game. No matter how you resolve the issue, make it a no-victor- no-vanquished situation.
  6. No Retaliation:  Seek to reconcile and re-connect, never revenge; if you revenge you equalize, if you forgive you win.
  7. Put Your own Need aside:  Meet the needs of your spouse, be selfless.
  8. Keep on talking:  If you disagree, keep on talking in love; NEVER abandon it until you are able to resolve it.  
  9. Pray:  No matter the level of your disagreement; dare to pray together. Let the Lord set in, He can still all storms.
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EASY WAYS TO SETTLE A DISPUTE

  1. See your own part of it: –Never lay the blame on your spouse or exonerate yourself. It takes two to tango.
  2. Take responsibility for the state of your home.
  3. Listen to your Partner:  Let your partner talk freely, let him or her talk without intimidation, just listen.
  4. Respond positively:  No defense, no threat and no game-playing. Respond in love.
  5. Look for a win-win situation: Never turn it to a contest; you are not in an Olympic Game. No matter how you resolve the issue, make it a no-victor- no-vanquished situation.
  6. No Retaliation:  Seek to reconcile and re-connect, never revenge; if you revenge you equalize, if you forgive you win.
  7. Put Your own Need aside:  Meet the needs of your spouse, be selfless.
  8. Keep on talking:  If you disagree, keep on talking in love; NEVER abandon it until you are able to resolve it.  
  9. Pray:  No matter the level of your disagreement; dare to pray together. Let the Lord set in, He can still all storms.