HOW TO BECOME A FAMILY MINISTER
HOW TO BECOME A FAMILY MINISTER
Home front is the real front of your calling. No matrimony. No ministry HOW TO BECOME A FAMILY MINISTER
- Strike a balance between ministry and marriage
- Develop uncommon love for your wife
- Become a man of vision. Know where you are going and share it with your wife. If the head is headless, the follower will not follow.
- Prepare adequately for your family: If you want your wife to call you HONEY give her MONEY. Provide physically, emotionally, financially and morally for your home. HOW TO BECOME A FAMILY MINISTER
- Commit the heart of your wife to the ministry.
- Honour your wife publicly: Appreciate her little effort, she will be challenged to do more.
- Involve your wife in the ministry: Your wife can be involved in visitation, women leadership, Sunday school, Bible Study, evangelism, children church, counseling, youth ministry, marriage ministry, ministration, etc. know her strength, and use it. Never allow her to be idle. Anybody that is idle may cuddle the devil. HOW TO BECOME A FAMILY MINISTER
- Be her husband not just her Pastor: What you cannot do for members, do for her. Cuddle her, touch her, kiss her, pray with her, joke with her, send love notes and romantic text message. Spoil her a little with gifts. HOW TO BECOME A FAMILY MINISTER
- Satisfy her bedroom desire: Never rush in bed. Your wife needs about twenty minutes of ‘laying of hands’ before ‘combined service’. Give her adequate foreplay before sex. Be a lover in the bedroom not a horse rider. Inform her ahead if you must fast (I cor.7: 3-5). Sex with your wife is not a sin but holy and righteous. It does not destroy anointing. In the bedroom, you are a lover, an husband, and not just a pastor.
- Listen to your wife. Let her talk and give her your undivided attention. Women love it when their husbands listen to them.
- Create interest in your wife’s business, family, health, fear, joy, plan and calling. In sickness stand by her; be her number one nurse. Never forget she needs more than paracetamol. She needs “kissquine”, “lovequine”, ‘touchdol”, “parastahug”, etc.
- Understand body signals. If she refuses to say Amen as you pray for her when she is sick, know that she needs more than casting and binding. She needs your touch, attention, affection and care
- Understand the mood of a woman: They are females, which mean a FEELING- MALE, male with strong feeling. Be an aggressive lover.
- Let there be togetherness: Be proud of her and faithful to her. Stroll, talk, sleep, pray, study, minister, play, travel together. HOLINESS SHOULD NOT MAKE YOU A ROMANTIC DISASTER.
- Develop good leadership and crisis management skills: Let the Lord take all the glory.
- Make your wife happy always. It is easier to lead a happy wife.
- Let there be oneness, for a city divided against itself cannot stand.
- Let there be good family altar.
- Get all the sexual enjoyment you need from your wife: Women are not different. Never seek satanic pleasure outside. No lady in the choir is as beautiful as your wife. Be content with her.
- Serious prayer is needed for your home and ministry. HOW TO BECOME A FAMILY MINISTER
Culled from Marriage&Ministry;striking a balance