10 Secrets Every Wife Should Know About Their Husband
10 Secrets Every Wife Should Know About Their Husband


-Bisi Adewale


When I wrote the first part of this article, I never knew it will generate huge response like it did. The demand from my teeming readers really prompted me to put the remaining part on paper. Please, relax and enjoy this icing that will make the cake of your marriage sumptuous.101 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN(Part 2)

  1. THERE IS A GIRL IN EVERY WOMAN: Atimes, that big woman can still act, reason and behave like a girl; don’t allow this to hurt you always. Remember that there is a girl in every woman.
  2. THERE IS A WIFE IN EVERY WOMAN: Every woman have a wife in her. She’s made to be a wife, She’s programmed  to be a wife. She’s wired to be a wife, you can only make her better.101 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN(Part 2)
  3. WOMEN DON’T WANT OTHER WOMEN IN THE LIFE OF THEIR MEN: Women want to be the only one in the life of their husbands. Their daughter should not even get too close.
  4. WOMEN HATE BEEN COMPARED WITH OTHER WOMEN: Never compare her with other women not even your own mom. She is who she is, and every girl is unique. Comparison is always a no, especially on a first date.
  5. IF YOU SHOW A WOMAN TRUE LOVE SHE CAN DO ANYTHING FOR YOU: When a woman gets genuine love from you, she can walk with you to any where barefooted. She is ready to do everything wherever she feels loved.
  6. WOMEN FEEL GREAT WHEN YOU PRAISE THEIR COOKING: IF you tell her she is a great cook, it’s like you are praising and endorsing her Wifehood and glorifying her womanhood.
  7. BEATING A WOMAN IS ONE OF THE GREATEST THING YOU CAN DO TO HURT HER: Beating a woman is a great crime against her womanhood. You must not do it.
  8. WOMEN WANT THEIR MEN TO BE CREATIVE IN LOVE: while women will not tell you what to do to show them love. They expect you to be creative in showing them love always.101 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN(Part 2)
  9. WOMEN WANT YOU TO LOVE THEM MORE THAN YOUR MOTHER: Yes, they want you to love them more than your mother. You may not like that but that is the truth of all women.
  10. THEY WANT YOU TO LOVE THEM MORE THAN YOUR JOBS: They want to come first ahead of your jobs.
  11. WOMEN LOVE MEN THAT ARE CONSIDERATE: They want to hear something like this, “Sweetheart you are too tired, you can’t cook tonight let’s get something at the eatery.
  12. WOMEN WANT SEX TWO OR THREE TIMES A MONTH: Women are not like men who want sex two or three times a week. They want it two or three times a month.
  13. WOMEN ARE LOYAL LOVERS: Even in death, they are still there for their husbands. They visit the burial place to clear the place, take the Children there. They celebrate anniversary of death and most of the time refuse to remarry.
  14. WOMEN ARE WISER DOMESTICALLY: They always seem to know what to do if it has to do with their homes.
  15. YOU CANT HIDE YOUR INCOME FROM A WOMAN,THEY HAVE WAYS OF KNOWING: You don’t need to hide your income from your wife, she has her ways of knowing. Open Up!
  16. WOMEN PERCEIVE IT WHEN YOU ARE CHEATING ON THEM: They may not have proof yet, you may deny it but she knows you are cheating and she will soon have her evidence except if she is not a woman.
  17. WOMEN WANT YOU TO APPRECIATE THEIR BEAUTY, COOKING SKILLS, DRESSING AND MOTHERHOOD: Telling a woman you are strong, full of energy or you are wise may not really make her day. What she want is for you to praise her beauty, dressing, motherhood, her children and her beautiful house.101 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN(Part 2)
  18. THERE IS MOTHERHOOD IN EVERY WOMAN: Motherhood is an inborn instinct in every woman. They are born with love, care, support and compassion in them.
  19. SHE DOESN’T WANT HONEST ASSESSMENT OF HER DRESSING: When a woman is through with dressing and asks you how do I look, she is not looking for an honest assessment, she is looking for praise and appreciation. If she does not dress well, just tell her what to adjust. Don’t ever say your dressing is bad, it will hurt her deeply.
  20. WHEN YOU HOLD A CHILD BY THE HAND YOU HOLD HER MOTHER BY THE HEART: Women have emotional attachment to their Children. If you treat their Children well, you score high mark in their hearts.
  21. EVERY WOMAN LOVE TO BE TREATED AS A BABE: Stop calling her Madam. She wants to be a babe, she doesn’t like to grow old
  22. WOMEN DO HAVE EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT WITH THIER HOUSE: If you praise a woman’s house she feels proud and fulfilled.
  23. EVERY WOMAN FEAR LOSING HER BEAUTY: One reason women fear growing old is that they don’t want to lose their beauty.
  24. WOMEN CAN NOT GROW BEYOND AGE 16 ROMANTICALLY: Their is a 16 year old in every woman, that wants you to treat her like a baby girl. Send her poems, romantic texts etc.
  25. SHE WANTS RELATIONSHIP MORE THAN MONEY: Most women value relationship more than money. So Guys, it is not about your money, it is about affection, attention and appreciation of her beauty.
  26. SHE CAN EASILY CRY: Women can easily cry. She can cry when she is happy, sad, fearful or even any time. Just hold her and make her happy.
  27. SHE IS NOT MOVED BY WHAT SHE SEES: Seeing you naked may not move her to desire sex. She is not moved by what she sees.
  28. WOMEN ARE MORE FAITHFUL LOVER THAN MEN: A woman is more likely to be faithful in a relationship than a man
  29. SHE IS MOVED BY WORDS: Women are moved by what they hear.
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79.SHE IS MOVED BY A GENTLE TOUCH: Women are also moved by romantic gentle touch.

  1. APPRECIATION CAN EASILY GET TO HER: Appreciating a woman’s beauty, house, cooking, Children, voice and dressing can easily win her.101 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN(Part 2)
  2. EVERY WOMAN LIKE MORE SHOES AND BAGS: I have never met a woman who has too many bags, shoes and cloths that won’t want more. All women want more of these things.
  3. WOMEN ARE FASHION CONSCIOUS: Women are more fashion and dressing conscious than Men.
  4. THEY ARE FULL OF COLORS: Women love colors and also know them. I never knew there are many shades of blue until I got married and I began to hear  turquoise blue, sky blue, navy blue etc.
  5. THEY HAVE LESS BRUTE STRENGTH: Women are more fragile, they don’t have brute strength like men.
  6. THEY HAVE INNER POWER: Women are stronger within, to the extent they can carry a whole baby inside.
  7. CAN MULTI TASK BETTER: They can do so many things at the same time. Cooking, plaiting hair for her eldest daughter, answering phone call, breast feeding the baby, preparing the house for the arrival of her husband etc.
  8. DON’T MISTAKES WOMEN’S TEARS FOR WEAKNESS: That a woman cries those not mean she is week, rather she is just releasing her emotion that will make her stronger.
  9. WOMEN SPEAK MORE THAN MEN: The reason women are talkative – and speak up to 20,000 words a day is now known. They produce their first words and sentences earlier, have larger vocabularies and use a greater variety.
    But now scientists have found the key to explaining why women are the more talkative sex.
    A study just published suggests that higher levels of the protein are found in the female brain.
  10. WOMEN ARE FOND OF FIGHTING EACH OTHER: Put two women together, you will see them fighting like cat and mouse. That is the reason most Mothers- In-law are on the throat of their Daughters-in-law.
  11. WOMEN CAN BE PETTY: An average woman can be petty, fights about little thing, gets angry about nothing and that is a woman for you
  12. WOMEN SHOUT ON THEIR CHILDREN MORE THAN MEN: Children You will not kill me, I didn’t kill my mother, I didn’t kill my father, you pour water on the rug again yeee, I will kill somebody in this house today. That is a Mother for you.
  13. NUMBER ONE NEED OF A WOMAN IS AFFECTION: Affection is the number one desire of a woman from her husband.
  14. NUMBER TWO NEED OF A WOMAN IS ATTENTION: Getting the attention of the man she married is the craving of all Wives.
  15. NUMBER THREE NEED OF A WOMAN IS APPRECIATION: All women like to be appreciated for everything.
  16. NUMBER FOUR NEED OF A WOMAN IS AFFIRMATION: Every woman needs affirmation of love from her husband. She wants to hear I love you more often.101 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN(Part 2)
  17. NUMBER FIVE NEED OF A WOMAN IS FAITHFULNESS: Every woman wants a faithful husband.
  18. NUMBER SIX NEED OF A WOMAN IS LOYALTY: Women want their husbands to be very loyal.
  19. NUMBER SEVEN NEED OF A WOMAN IS SECURITY: Finding somebody to protect and secure is the dream of every woman
  20. NUMBER EIGHT NEED OF A WOMAN IS MONOPOLY: Women love to be the only woman in the life of their husbands. Not even their daughters or the Mother of the man should come close.
  21. NUMBER NINE NEED OF A WOMAN IS PLAYFULNESS: Every woman wants a playful husband. Somebody that will not make the house too hot for her, but playful and jovial.101 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN(Part 2)
  22. NUMBER TEN NEED OF A WOMAN IS SEXUAL FULFILLMENT: Women may not like sex like Men, but they still want to be sexually fulfilled! Getting what they desire in the bedroom.101 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN(Part 2)


Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale