Sex In Marriage – 3 Kinds of Sex In Marriage
There are three major kinds of sexual activities that can take place between a man and his wife in the bedroom, the one you involve yourself in will determine whether you are an irresistible or not.
1.Marital Rape. A whole lot of husbands do force their wives to bed; they do force themselves on their wives without wives consent. This is what I call marital rape. It is not alright to sleep with your wife by force; every sexual relationship must be with her consent. It is crude and barbaric to beat her, CLICK BOOK TO BUY CLICK BOOK & BUY threaten her or injure her because of sex; you must be a lover not a fighter. Sex suppose to be a love game not a fight to finish affair, be a man not an animal be a friend, be a gentle man.
2.Animal Mating. Another sex that normally takes place in marriage bedroom is “mating”. Like what animals do, it do take place in the bedroom without love, care, emotion, passion and attention. All what some men knows or want is sex not love or romance; they believe women are good for kitchen and the bedroom only. They believe that women must not enjoy sex, it is only meant for men, in fact, and they believe women were created just to give pleasure to men. A whole lot of men want sex but hate foreplay; they want intercourse but not love play. Some of them do grab their wives just the way cat will grab a rat. Anytime you sleep with your wife selfishly without love and affection, any time you have her without love talk, love play and foreplay; you’ve just succeed to have “mating” not love making. Anytime you bark order to her because you want to have sex with her: “Remove your bra, now! “Remove your skirt fast”! “Are you a fool, don’t you know you suppose to remove your pant by now”, “Open your lap wide idiot”, “Won’t you hold me foolish woman”, etc all you are doing is mating.
3.Love Making. What God created sex in marriage to be is “love making”. “And Adam KNEW EVE his wife……..(Genesis 4:1). God does not want sex in marriage to just be about “laying together” but about “know each other”. It should involve love sharing, patience, pleasure, communication, companionship, enjoyment, giving and receiving. You as the man must not see yourself just as a receiver but lover not a horse rider. You must have correct understanding of what sex in marriage should be and develop yourself to be the best. Don’t ever think of getting sexual satisfaction outside your marriage, it is dangerous; selfish and unrighteous, look inward and get righteous sex at home, don’t ever think of satisfying yourself though another woman it can lead to your death and eternal damnation.
Don’t “rape” her, don’t force her, don’t sleep with her without preparing her (mating) let her enjoy sex with you, let her be your eyes lover .